JDPT Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 I'm currently at 1.5 years post BU from a 4.5 year relationship. I've had my days where I thought the remainder of my days would be nothing but misery and agony. I however have come a very long way. In my early days of recovery I decided to save pictures of her and her kids on a flash drive and handed them over to my mother to have them put away. I didn't want to make a premature decision and delete them all together. The other day I was going through old pictures on my laptop and saw a picture of her son that she took in a supermarket. I felt a little sting and nothing more than that. I then decided to X out of the picture as I had no need to stare at it, this would only lead to me resurfacing memories that I didn't need to relive. My point is that I've learned to proactively make better decisions that will work in my favor. I no longer need to be considerate or think about a past that ended a very long time ago. I'm still a work in progress and hope to one day be completely free and learn from this life lesson. 2
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