digger Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 maybe Im not so bad after all. I invited my daughter over for Easter on friday--she said she was going to stay with her 18 yr old b/f and parents. My EW was going to Flroida to visit the b**** who said talking to me was like talking to the devil himself. My EW cant even spend Easter with her own daughter, much less leaves town with her alone at her age and in no way shape or form says "im leaving go spend the holiday with your father". I think its a shame and i give the **** up. Why shouldnt i? Hate is a terrible thing.
CurlyIam Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 Your ex should have made your daughter come spend Easter with you. But you see, she's a teenage. Shell put her bf before God himself . Try not to take it this personally. I think you should focuss on the relationship with your daughter, talk to her, be close to her, make her want to spend time with you so that you get to know eachother better rather that concentrating on hating your ex. It's horrible to feel left out, I know, especially when we're talking about your own family. You ex doesn't give a damn. She's moving on with her life. Try and do the same.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 No, you are not so bad - you're a wonderful father to your daughter. Just continue be there for your daughter whenever she needs you and even when she doesn't. Ha, wouldn't it have been nice to be invited to her bf's parents to join them and meet them? That would've given you the one-up on your Ex, eh?
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