sandylee1 Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Uneek' date=' I am 34 years old. And she doesn't believe in divorce, so that's off the table. Thanks![/quote'] She doesn't have to believe in divorce. If he wanted out, he'd be out. 5
eye of the storm Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 But their relationship is not open. Nobody knows what the MM is telling his W about the OW. If it were truly open, his W wouldn't have thrown a fit and made him go home on his Bday. There is serious dysfunction in the MMs marriage. But that is all we know. We also know the OP was a child when this predator started grooming her. She doesn't know anything other than an A.
elaine567 Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 But their relationship is not open. Nobody knows what the MM is telling his W about the OW. If it were truly open, his W wouldn't have thrown a fit and made him go home on his Bday. True. I doubt very much if she is accepting of this relationship and I doubt she truly knows the extent of it either. He has 18 years to spin stories here.
GirlStillStrong Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Uneek' date=' I am 34 years old. And she doesn't believe in divorce, so that's off the table. Thanks![/quote'] You have been having this relationship with this married guy since you were 16? Since you were a child. And how old is this "man?" I am not judging you but my advice to you, as a woman who is older than you, is to move on from this guy. Please. Your 30s are your BEST decade. It is enough that you have thrown away your 20s with this guy. Please use your 30s more constructively. Don't meet with his wife. Focus your energies and your resources on YOU; not on a relationship with some guy. Focus on what you want out of life.
Popsicle Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Do it. Either way it will make things move forward.
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