kkk Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 (edited) if youre a guy, change the entities to "She/her" if youre a female, change the entities to "He/his/him" You spend 3 years with your girlfriend. You have a kid with her. It was not planned but accepted. Then later she decided to break things off between the two of you. The reason is because you've changed. Youve changed, youre not the same person she loved before. You tried to beg and convince her back but she refused to. Both of you decided to be on good terms for the kid. You were crushed but moved on to a rebound relationship. Theres no official labeling yet. then over a year of dating with the new girl, you decided to become official. But you keep her a secret to your family and friends. Present girl loves you so much. Youre her first in everything! You love and care for her but its hard for you to love her completely coz youre afraid she will break you off like what your ex did to you. Plus, you still have feelings for ex. And youre still not sure how will your parents react that youre with a new girl coz you already have a kid and want you to work things out with your ex. after 2 years, ex wanted to try again. Everything is going well between you and your present gf. But she found out(from outside sources) that you are deciding whether to go back to your ex to try patch things up together and fix the family. The present girl broke it off after she asked for an explanation why things are happening and you cant give her an answer. She still wants you though. What will you do now? The truth is you already patching things up with the ex while youre with the present. So basically you were having two girls at the same time. haha. But you love both and wanna keep both. You were playing safe. Now what will you do now? Who will you choose? Ex was fun to be with, youre quite opposite when it comes to passion/hobbies/interest and personality. you share the same type of music. You are of the same age. have many memories together. Your family knows her and love her.You have a kid together. You rarely had misunderstandings. Shes career-oriented. Shes ok with kids and pets. No sex since having a kid. Can cook. Outgoing/free-spirited. Smart. Love you. Not sensitive . Not aware that you have a new girl. Present is also fun to be with, you share same things when it comes to passion/hobbies/interest and personality. You dont share the same type of music. Theres a six-year age gap. You have few memories together since youre new. You never introduced her to family/friends. You always have misunderstandings but were able to resolve because both are willing. Shes family-oriented. She loves kids and pets. Great sex. Great cook. Reserved. Smart. Love you to death. Super sensitive . You have no kid with her. Aware about your past relationship and how you and your ex broke off and accepted that you have a kid. but not aware about being still "romantically involved" with her(ex). but she gets the hint now since youre still not answering her questions even after breaking up. Youre on a decision. Youre confused. You were a good partner for both(but you also cheated on both by keeping them at the same time lol) hey, there could be a second chance with ex! But if you choose the current, she might change in the future...cmon shes hella younger than you but both are adults btw. btw Im not the one to choose lol this is just a question ive been asking everyone the past days...follow up questions will be added after i get answrers sorry for my bad english. Edited January 10, 2015 by kkk
Ann253 Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 You break it off with both. You don't love either enough to be faithful or honest. All three of you deserve better.
Author kkk Posted January 10, 2015 Author Posted January 10, 2015 Okay. So if youre the current girl, will you just accept that you broke it off even without getting any explanation?
ExpatInItaly Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Okay. So if youre the current girl, will you just accept that you broke it off even without getting any explanation? I would likely put two and two together and assume you went back to you ex after all. Not sure how old you are, but it isn't funny to be playing with people like this. There's nothing "haha" or "lol" about it. Do the honorable thing and break it off with both of them until you figure out what you want. 1
smackie9 Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 You should break it of with both and bang multiple hot chicks or at least stay out of relationships for awhile.
guest569 Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 I cant see a choice in any of this? Ex broke up with you. If you were having trouble fully trusting the new girl, how are you going to trust your ex again? What you did to the 2nd girl is unfair and it seems unlikely that you can patch things up with her. So what are you asking?
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