d0nnivain Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 It doesn't matter why the relationship ended or who ended, the loss is painful for both parties. If you are so over him, have moved & moved on, what do you care what he is feeling. In your mind, hope he finds peace but continue living your life.
Simon Phoenix Posted February 22, 2015 Posted February 22, 2015 One of my friends saw my ex. She told him she was angry at him and he replied he's still hurting about everything. He said this again, to her, despite me telling him in a few emails that he had nothing to hurt about (he said everything hurts him, esp because I was hurt) because the break up was for the best, I am doing great, I am not hurting and that ever since I left the country we were both living in, I hadn't thought about him or the break up. I even told him I was dating someone new. And yet he still told my friend he is hurting. What the hell does he have to hurt about?? No idea why this is getting to me so much! Stop chasing this. It's a fool's errand. Who knows why he's hurt -- we all react to things differently. His ego could be bruised, he could hate that he doesn't have the upper hand, he could be fishing for a reaction from you (which it sounds like you want to give), it could be a million things. You need to concentrate on you and stop trying to psychoanalyze him. It's time to let this die completely and recover. 1
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