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Attracted to someone else for 1st time?


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Hey folks,

 

First off, thanks in advance for listening, or should I say reading. I'll get right to it.

 

Basically, I'm feeling attracted to someone else besides my girlfriend whom I love very much for the first time in our 2 years together. I have never considered cheating in my life and never will. Just not who I am, especially with my gf as I respect and care for her incredibly.

 

However...I recently started a new job and there's a bit of tension with one of the girls there and it's weird to me. I find myself not being able to stop thinking about her and I hate it. Also, she has a serious bf herself...but there's no doubt we both feel whatever this is towards each other. She's super cool, but it's not like she's way more attractive than my gf physically. I don't know what it is.

 

Anyways, I guess I'm just asking for advice as to what I need to do to get over this and move on. I'm the luckiest guy in the world with my gf and I wouldn't trade her for anything.

 

Thanks!

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Is there something missing in your relationship with your girlfriend?

 

Not unusual to notice other attractive people, lol, but this sustained tension with the new female worker makes me suspect. Boredom setting in or something else not quite right?

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