Jord11 Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 I've been seeing this girl and she has a daughter so I've been helper her out a lot trying to be a nice guy, the other night she told me she thinks I'm only there to see her because I don't want to be alone like wtf why would you say anything like that I took it to heart and I've barely spoke with her since then don't want to be alone like seriously
WonderWoman911 Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 That's really nice of you to take care of her and her daughter. Not a lot of guys are willing to do that AT ALL. I'm sure she didn't mean any harm in her comment. She's probably not use to guys taking on that role for her and her child. Therefore, that could've been her only reason why she would think that's your reason for sticking around.
Danda Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 She was expressing her insecurity/worry to you. It was good that she phrased it with "I think" instead of launching it as an accusation. An accusation towards you would be, "You're only here because you're afraid of being alone." Expressing a worry starts with, "I think," or "I'm afraid that" or "I worry that" and so on. It was meant to start a conversation about why you are invested enough to be helping her with her child. She was probably just looking for some reassurance. I don't think it was meant as an insult. So what did you say in response to her when she expressed this anxiety of hers to you?
preraph Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 You may seem too good to be true to her. Assure her you're interested in her, and that's all you can do.
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