ThaWholigan Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Definitely wouldn't say your voice is unattractive.
Danda Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Untitled on Vimeo To me you sound like a kid. Not trying to be offensive just real with you, and to admit that yeah your voice would have given me a run for my moolah in that hypothetical bet. But you definitely do not sound like a man. My voice is very similar when my anxiety goes up and I'm speaking in a monotone.. er, tone. It can make me sound young boy like. If you had emotion in your voice it'd make a huge difference. But yeah definitely not a deep voice and definitely don't sound like a man. Sounds like a very young boy to me, but it's mostly because of how monotone it is. My voice is deeper than yours, but (so I'm told) kind of husky and sultry and slower, more expressive (I'm told I'm funny a lot, with the way I describe things hehe). So it's not the depth of your voice. Mine's notably deeper than yours when I'm fully relaxed but I've never been told it's masculine. In fact I had one very awkward Skype with a male friend some years back where I don't think he realized I could hear his getting off breathing while talking with me about sex stuff, lmao. So again, do not worry about the "depth" of your voice, it's not actually deep. Just needs some flirty emotional energy channeled into it, that and if you have a sexy look in your eyes I'm sure you'll be golden.
A O Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 To me you sound like a kid. Not trying to be offensive just real with you. I agree, no offence...you certainly do not sound like a man. And your higher version would stir many a man I'm sure.
Author Nickierose19 Posted January 10, 2015 Author Posted January 10, 2015 (edited) To me you sound like a kid. Not trying to be offensive just real with you, and to admit that yeah your voice would have given me a run for my moolah in that hypothetical bet. But you definitely do not sound like a man. My voice is very similar when my anxiety goes up and I'm speaking in a monotone.. er, tone. It can make me sound young boy like. If you had emotion in your voice it'd make a huge difference. But yeah definitely not a deep voice and definitely don't sound like a man. Sounds like a very young boy to me, but it's mostly because of how monotone it is. My voice is deeper than yours, but (so I'm told) kind of husky and sultry and slower, more expressive (I'm told I'm funny a lot, with the way I describe things hehe). So it's not the depth of your voice. Mine's notably deeper than yours when I'm fully relaxed but I've never been told it's masculine. In fact I had one very awkward Skype with a male friend some years back where I don't think he realized I could hear his getting off breathing while talking with me about sex stuff, lmao. So again, do not worry about the "depth" of your voice, it's not actually deep. Just needs some flirty emotional energy channeled into it, that and if you have a sexy look in your eyes I'm sure you'll be golden. Yeah I know my voice doesn't sound like a full grown man. That's why I said a low female voice. My voice never dropped like much of my mom's family did. Most of my family sounds like that but matured and the voice dropped the ones with lighter voices have similar voice to mine. I've always sounded really young because my voice never dropped. My voice is around 190-200 he which is in female range. But not on the heavy side of it since it seems male and female voices overall. Voice frequency - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Males are 80-180. While females are 165-250. My voice lands on that scale as a 190-200. And I'm only 21 which is most concerning to me. When I flirt its a bit lower in the ambiguous range of 180. I'm mostly happy my voice hasn't cracked as of get though. What do you mean emotion though? I lifted my voice in that vid a bit? I wasn't nervous I was very calm. I'm more anxious my voice gets higher like my "head" voice one. Edited January 10, 2015 by Nickierose19
Author Nickierose19 Posted January 10, 2015 Author Posted January 10, 2015 I agree, no offence...you certainly do not sound like a man. And your higher version would stir many a man I'm sure. You think? It doesn't sound forced. I thought a lot of people would say it's too high. Funny thing is when I use that voice too long lol it gets rasp and tougher to attain. I also thought both ways I sounded like a kid. I always feel like it's either a little boy or a little girl.
FitChick Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Lizabeth Scott was a big star in the Fifties. Do you sound like her? She's in the first scene of Too Late for Tears (1949). Known for her sexy voice. And now excuse me while I watch the rest of this film. I love film noir.
Author Nickierose19 Posted January 10, 2015 Author Posted January 10, 2015 Lizabeth Scott was a big star in the Fifties. Do you sound like her? She's in the first scene of Too Late for Tears (1949). Known for her sexy voice. And now excuse me while I watch the rest of this film. I love film noir. No but my cousin tries to sound like that but a little deeper. She has the same thing in her voice but it's a success.
Danda Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 I only listened to the first clip you posted, the one without you trying to sound like anything, super monotone. And again, yeah, the depth of your voice is not manly at all. How deep your voice is, is perfectly fine. You just need to try out putting some flirty umph into it. You sound like you're only half awake in that first clip, or maybe kind of high. Put a little energy into it and get flirty, your voice has the potential to sound very appealing, you just weren't trying at all in that clip. If I don't put any energy or expression at all into my voice I sound like a gender-neutral stoner haha. 1
A O Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 You think? It doesn't sound forced. I thought a lot of people would say it's too high. Funny thing is when I use that voice too long lol it gets rasp and tougher to attain. I also thought both ways I sounded like a kid. I always feel like it's either a little boy or a little girl. The higher voice sounds cute (oh,and flirty) but heck....if you can get that raspy voice going then you'll really be on a winner! Lizabeth Scott was a big star in the Fifties. Do you sound like her? She's in the first scene of Too Late for Tears (1949). Known for her sexy voice. And now excuse me while I watch the rest of this film. I love film noir. Too Late for Tears - what a great title. 1
Author Nickierose19 Posted January 10, 2015 Author Posted January 10, 2015 I only listened to the first clip you posted, the one without you trying to sound like anything, super monotone. And again, yeah, the depth of your voice is not manly at all. How deep your voice is, is perfectly fine. You just need to try out putting some flirty umph into it. You sound like you're only half awake in that first clip, or maybe kind of high. Put a little energy into it and get flirty, your voice has the potential to sound very appealing, you just weren't trying at all in that clip. If I don't put any energy or expression at all into my voice I sound like a gender-neutral stoner haha. Oh ok thanks for the tips I didn't know monotone was unusual in women. No wonder my other voice works better with certain lines of work.
Author Nickierose19 Posted January 10, 2015 Author Posted January 10, 2015 I only listened to the first clip you posted, the one without you trying to sound like anything, super monotone. And again, yeah, the depth of your voice is not manly at all. How deep your voice is, is perfectly fine. You just need to try out putting some flirty umph into it. You sound like you're only half awake in that first clip, or maybe kind of high. Put a little energy into it and get flirty, your voice has the potential to sound very appealing, you just weren't trying at all in that clip. If I don't put any energy or expression at all into my voice I sound like a gender-neutral stoner haha. Did my second voice have more energy then?
FitChick Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Too Late for Tears - what a great title. You have gotta watch. So over the top but it kept me guessing till the end. She was a baaaad girl. A very, very baaaad girl. A hard boiled dame.
A O Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Oh, why did you have to mention the baad girl part! I know I can get into film noir but right now I am working my way through a lot of the tv programs I grew up on. Viva the Internet.
FitChick Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Oh, why did you have to mention the baad girl part! I know I can get into film noir but right now I am working my way through a lot of the tv programs I grew up on. Viva the Internet. Funny you mention that. There was one actress in the film I'd never heard of so googled and found she'd done a couple of guest appearances on the Donna Reed Show from the late Fifties/early Sixties. Then I wound up watching several episodes of that black and white series till 1:00AM, wishing I grew up in that house with that mom and dad!
Author Nickierose19 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Posted January 11, 2015 It seems like a cool movie.
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 11, 2015 Posted January 11, 2015 You sound very young to me (19) and have this low monotone kind of "lazy" teenager type of pattern to the way you speak, but with a bit more energy and enthusiasm I think it could translate well. If you're like in your teens, it makes sense why you talk like that...but as you get older speak louder and more clearly, with much more confidence in the way that you speak if you want someone to listen to you and take you seriously...otherwise people may drift from what you're saying or take you for being passive. I have a deep voice as well, so the mumbling affect can make words harder to distinguish if I don't put more energy into them. I have different ways of speaking with my voice, for example: - Business professional voice, where I speak very clearly, confidently and with intent...I speak more deeply and from the back of my throat - Everyday voice, kind of a lazy or more sarcastic tone, kind of a condescending type of tone to it...and that's pretty much the voice I use to speak here in my writing, it's more nasally than my professional voice. - Polite voice, I lower down the bass or deepness of my voice usually for older people or kids or when interacting in certain social situations where I just want to be respectful and a good widdle boy. Kat Von D also has a pretty low deep voice which your voice reminded me a bit of, but lower than yours and people seem to like her well enough. For myself, I prefer lighter voices but not too high pitched...I dated a woman who's voice was high and when she laughed it was like cracking a whip. I also have a thing for women with a bit of rasp in their voice, but not overly so. While I think a voice can be important in the initial attraction phase, I would say beyond that it's not a deal-breaker. But there are some women who have voices that have put me off, but there's usually more to the whole package...not just her voice.
Author Nickierose19 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Posted January 11, 2015 You sound very young to me (19) and have this low monotone kind of "lazy" teenager type of pattern to the way you speak, but with a bit more energy and enthusiasm I think it could translate well. If you're like in your teens, it makes sense why you talk like that...but as you get older speak louder and more clearly, with much more confidence in the way that you speak if you want someone to listen to you and take you seriously...otherwise people may drift from what you're saying or take you for being passive. I have a deep voice as well, so the mumbling affect can make words harder to distinguish if I don't put more energy into them. I have different ways of speaking with my voice, for example: - Business professional voice, where I speak very clearly, confidently and with intent...I speak more deeply and from the back of my throat - Everyday voice, kind of a lazy or more sarcastic tone, kind of a condescending type of tone to it...and that's pretty much the voice I use to speak here in my writing, it's more nasally than my professional voice. - Polite voice, I lower down the bass or deepness of my voice usually for older people or kids or when interacting in certain social situations where I just want to be respectful and a good widdle boy. Kat Von D also has a pretty low deep voice which your voice reminded me a bit of, but lower than yours and people seem to like her well enough. For myself, I prefer lighter voices but not too high pitched...I dated a woman who's voice was high and when she laughed it was like cracking a whip. I also have a thing for women with a bit of rasp in their voice, but not overly so. While I think a voice can be important in the initial attraction phase, I would say beyond that it's not a deal-breaker. But there are some women who have voices that have put me off, but there's usually more to the whole package...not just her voice. I try to make my polite voice my "head" voice. People take to this voice well as long as I don't slip up because then they just think I have attitude when I was being polite. I tend to do the same with professional voice. The video was showing my lazy everyday voice. I'm 21. So not far off from 19. I guess. Kat Von d has a voice similar to my exroommate (a ciswoman) she was a slight deeper voice than kat I think kat talk in her head or attempts to.... My roomies would totally talk in her.chest and when I wasn't looking at her I'd be confused. I always thought the way we talked was quite similar. But hers more chesty while mine like I said never quite dropped.
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