almond Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Lol, I got a good chuckle out of this thread. She was quite obviously flirting with you buddy. Things were going well. You saw something that wasn't there, and went straight for her jugular. I seriously suggest you do some hard work on addressing these issues that are causing such serious problems for you. It's going to be very hard to have a healthy relationship until you can interact with another person without feeling like they're always out to get you. 3
elaine567 Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 Eddy you are self-sabotaging. Self-Sabotaging: Why We Get in Our Own Way YOU need to sort YOURSELF out, before contemplating any more interactions with women. NO women is going to get through your prickly defences and if she does, she runs a big risk of being rejected pretty quick due to your paranoia, distrust and misgivings. Most people are not out to GET at you, especially women looking for a date. Why would they? 1
almond Posted January 10, 2015 Posted January 10, 2015 I did, we texted back and forth a bit and then I just couldn't help it, the MIB stuff came up, I wrote "I hope you aren't sharing these texts with your girlfiriends (she was out with roommates), I disclosed my identity as an MIB agent to you, this is strictly confidential". But then I kept saying "maybe elaborate?" over and over again to get to her and then I just blocked her. I just have to chalk it up to experience. That was the thing that I think ruined it. When she wrote "maybe elaborate?" it seemed extremely arrogant to me. I just caught this post. The underline section creeped me the hell out to be honest...it makes you sound like you're completely unhinged. 2
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