GG420 Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 Ok first of all my girlfriend is like REALLY shy. When we text and stuff she is totally fine but when we are hanging out in person she only says maybe 10 things the whole night. We have been dating for about a month now and I don't know how to get her to open up. The sex is really awkward because she is just so fricken shy haha. I have no idea how to get her to open up and I guess some suggestions would be nice.
Danda Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 Ask her open-ended questions, like, "What do you think about _______," instead of yes/no type questions, or questions that can be answered with "okay" or "sometimes". After she answers, then follow up with your own thoughts on the topic. This will pretty much force her to practice opening up more and will be helpful in her coming out of her shell over time. If she just flat out refuses to talk or constantly answers with "I don't know" type responses, then she has issues that you probably can't help her overcome. 1
Poppyolive Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 Go on a fun date. That will loosen her up. Go karting, paintballing, lazer tag, those giant ball a that you get in and tumble down a hill. Go do something that brings about belly aching laughter. Then eat ice cream and have sex!!
todreaminblue Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 Go on a fun date. That will loosen her up. Go karting, paintballing, lazer tag, those giant ball a that you get in and tumble down a hill. Go do something that brings about belly aching laughter. Then eat ice cream and have sex!! i think theres a deeper issue than shyness maybe...if she were truly shy sex wouldnt be happening so early......deb 2
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