LaKeiShA Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 i just ended an affair with a man i have been going out with for one year. the problems in the affair 1. he was married 2. he loved his wife 3. workmate so i had to keep seeing him on his time and not mine. and my friends kept telling me how wrong it was for me to be seeing him. i left him 3 days ago over an sms..he has not since replied or called my a$$. im wondering whats running through his head. im completely broken.advice people?
CurlyIam Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 Stop thinking, stop waiting for him to reply. Go out, have fun and keep busy for a while. The first days are the most difficult to get over. Congrats for you decision!!!!!!
RecordProducer Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 I'll tell you what's running through his head: "Oh, s*it! A cute ass she had...she might change her mind however..I won't call her for a while...the little one is totally a fool for me, he-he-he...cuz i got the best penis...she's gonna call me and beg me to f*ck her...anyway I'm gonna be busy these days...I miss that pair of tits...well...if she doesn't call by the time the wife gets her period I'll call her!"
Mr Spock Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 the little one is totally a fool for me, he-he-he...cuz i got the best penis...she's gonna call me and beg me to f*ck her...anyway I'm gonna be busy these days...I miss that pair of tits...well...if she doesn't call by the time the wife gets her period I'll call her!" Word.................... LaKeisha, it's a blessing in disguise that you broke up with him. Don't call him. It's OK to miss him. It's OK if you're not ready for it to be over, but for the love of you know who don't call him. Sends him the message that you're even more of a doormat than he already thinks you are (woman who has sex with him but doesn't hassle him.....sounds too good to be true) So if he calls you, and you truly in your mind aren't ready for it to end by all means take the call. But don't call him. One of the things that makes it easier to deal with this crap is the sense of satisfaction one retains from being the one to end it. You may have endured this crap, but YOU broke it off and walked away and therefore can't be lumped in with the rest of the weak mooning souls who waited for him to tire of them. Hurt fades in time. May take a lot of time, but will fade.
Author LaKeiShA Posted March 30, 2005 Author Posted March 30, 2005 Originally posted by Mr Spock Word.................... LaKeisha, it's a blessing in disguise that you broke up with him. Don't call him. It's OK to miss him. It's OK if you're not ready for it to be over, but for the love of you know who don't call him. Sends him the message that you're even more of a doormat than he already thinks you are (woman who has sex with him but doesn't hassle him.....sounds too good to be true) So if he calls you, and you truly in your mind aren't ready for it to end by all means take the call. But don't call him. One of the things that makes it easier to deal with this crap is the sense of satisfaction one retains from being the one to end it. You may have endured this crap, but YOU broke it off and walked away and therefore can't be lumped in with the rest of the weak mooning souls who waited for him to tire of them. Hurt fades in time. May take a lot of time, but will fade. wow thats very inspiring..thanks alot. well he actually did call on sunday and asked if he could see me, not on his time! so i said no...i wanna go see my parents and stay at home for some while because that will keep my focus off him and to my family....he just called a few minutes ago and said if thats my decision he will respect it and its not that he doesnt have feelings for me its just that he respects it, then he said he will take me out and teach me to be his sister i was like whoa! he is actually taking this well....hmm its his loss. i agree the first few days are actually hard to let go, but time heals and i believe that in time i will actually let go of him.
CurlyIam Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 Teach to be his siter? Holly crap, ask him to invite you to family dinner, then. I have yet to hear a bigger BS this week. My advice: don't answer his calls, don't read his mail, block him on IM. He is ... such a slime! Where does he get these lines? HE'll try to break your decision. And don't think he'll try too hard. Such a conceited bastard. Eliminate him from your life. You're doing yourself a BIG favour!
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