rester Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 Nope this is where I go. I'm not going to a therapist because I am too shy to talk to anyone in person and I don't have the energy to start over on my own or with anyone else, so yup...I'm stuck where I'm at. And yes I realize I'm not STUCK, but this is where I"m staying. You're stuck and have no motivation to take some action for your own well-being? Action as simple as moving a box off a table? Posters here get frustrated with thread starters that moan and complain about things but take none of the good advice given to them, and then come back and complain some more. People spend good time trying to help, and then you spit on them and tell them, no, I'm stuck, I'm not doing anything and I'll continue to complain. Why is that? Why won't you take some of the simple advice given to you? There are ways to improve your relationship, not necessarily end it.
CarrieT Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 There are ways to improve your relationship, not necessarily end it. ^ ^ THIS !!!! ^ ^ Have you read this article on what makes successful relationships work? The two big things? Kindness and Generosity. And even though you feel your husband may be neither Kind nor Generous towards you, Mapper, if you start displaying those characteristics, what you beget WILL be received... 2
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