Jessicalo Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 It's been almost one whole year since I have spoken to my ex. That makes it almost two years since we actually broke up. Is it normal that I still think of him daily? A lot of great things have happened in my life and a lot of great things have happened for him as well...at this point I wish him happiness and I hope he wishes the same for me. About two weeks ago I sent him a message telling him happy new year and congratulations on his bookings(he's always been a musician, and he has some big shows coming up this year). I wished him a happy birthday as well and told him to take care. He never responded, but then again I didn't expect him to. He is currently living and thriving(at least it seems that way) in a relationship with the girl he cheated on me with almost two years ago. Is it only my ego making me miss him, or is it because I really loved him and just miss him? Sometimes I wonder if he will ever speak to me again. I'd be okay if he didn't, I'd just be very sad. It's like missing an old dear friend, and I hate it. Anyone been in my shoes that can offer a bit of advice/encouragement?
Art_Critic Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 About the only thing I see missing being that you are over him is a new love interest, the recent contact was nostalgia... It's time you go find someone else to give your time and love to, that will finish the process of healing and moving on...
carhill Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 Young with unfinished business is my read. Time and life experience will teach the tools to pull people down off of pedestals and view them as human, fallible, and transitory. You had some good times and it was meaningful to be loved and love someone. Life goes on. Tie up the loose ends and he'll slip into the billions of humans which don't matter to you, like the one writing this post. That's how life goes. 1
saz123 Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 Jessicalo I was in your situation 3 years ago but I was still in school. So doesn't really count but I will carry on... Basically went out with a boy for 1 year, first boyfriend and we were best friends before. Then he decided to dump me for another girl. Nice. Anyway I cried and was very upset. But I fixed it by getting to know other boys and dating other boys! Go for it girl, it's the only way you'll properly move on. X
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