johndo1984 Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 I used to like this girl, we dated for a period of time. During that time, I heard rumors from my friends that she has a bf. When I asked her three times, in person, phone and text, she said she not w him and she single. I found out on fb, she does have a bf. We have a nasty argument. Am not mad she has a bf, am angry she lied to me three times. I went on with my life and avoid contact w her until this day. Not only I avoid her in person but also some of my friends too. Randomly, she texted me wanting to meet and talk. I never replied, should I talk to her or listen to what she got to say? It been 3 years since we last saw each other.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 I wouldn't bother responding. She didn't respect you enough to be honest with you. Why go down that road again?
Assada Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 this story sounds retardedly immature.. dude move on with your life
coolheadal Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 She has betrayed your trust in her! You can't change this type of girl. She doing whatever she pleases. She has no morals and is lair not once, not twice, but three times! This is how it would be if you did what she wanted you to do: It would have been: her+ other (boyfriend (1)) + you (boyfriend (2))). But this didn't happen because you have morals! You knew you didn't come first in her head (mind). Her game was busted! Now she just has that other boyfriend. Really need to push out of your head (mind) and follow these outline protection NC = no contact and no communication what so ever! No text, No cell, No land-line NG = never give in and never giver her the time of day! If you see her in public, walk the other way. Refusal works best. Final note is that this type of girl you can't trust and she going to keep on doing this with other guys she's with. Get on with your life! 1
Author johndo1984 Posted January 9, 2015 Author Posted January 9, 2015 She has betrayed your trust in her! You can't change this type of girl. She doing whatever she pleases. She has no morals and is lair not once, not twice, but three times! This is how it would be if you did what she wanted you to do: It would have been: her+ other (boyfriend (1)) + you (boyfriend (2))). But this didn't happen because you have morals! You knew you didn't come first in her head (mind). Her game was busted! Now she just has that other boyfriend. Really need to push out of your head (mind) and follow these outline protection NC = no contact and no communication what so ever! No text, No cell, No land-line NG = never give in and never giver her the time of day! If you see her in public, walk the other way. Refusal works best. Final note is that this type of girl you can't trust and she going to keep on doing this with other guys she's with. Get on with your life! Ty, my last msg to her, I told her I dont want to deal w her what so ever. I dont want to see her face or talk to her ever again. She said am jealous, bc I can't accept that she with him. I told her that I dont deal with or want to be w someone that a bitch and a lair. Btw you can marry him tomorrow see if I care. She said she didnt do anything wrong, and she doesn't have to tell me anything. On New Year, she text me wish am happy new year. What this girl want from me? Be friend? Have sympathy for her?
Danda Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 OP, this is a gal who lied to you and used you as the "other man" and it was 3 flippin years ago. The fact that you even had an emotional response strong enough to warrant seeking out advice, says to me that you are severely desperate and needy. And people who enjoy playing head games and using people target desperate, needy people. What does she want from you? More games and attention, which turns out she can still get from you, because you're having an emotional, irrational reaction towards her. You're texting her back and arguing and exchanging petty jabs. That's what she wanted and that's what she got. She'll keep coming back for more until you snap out of it.
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