ex broke up with me....but lead me on afterwards/ got mad when i date others!

[loneyBird]

So....I will try to make this as short as possible

 

 

My ex fiance (of two years) broke up with me a month ago because he thought I had to "find myself" and he works incredibly hard...and doesn't have time for me (he works seven days a week at a firm). And "the love we had sort of faded."I was in the process of changing schools so I could move in with him. But the fact that I wanted to go to a club...sort of sparked this whole thing.

Anyway....I was convinced the relationship was over and we would occasionally talk on the phone a bit...but he would be in a hurry to get off to bed.

 

Then one day he confused the hell out of me...and said he wanted to move up to Seattle, be with me and take the bar up here, but he would need $15,000 and that would take him a year to save up. I was happy he wanted to move here but confused and unsure what his motives where. I was afraid I was a back up plan....and nothing more because even though he wanted to live with me and be together with me he said he wouldn't take me back until that time had come. ( which was a year....).

 

I asked him what would happen if I fell in love with someone else during that time, and he said that was just a chance he would have to take.

I was afraid he was just stringing me along so i decided to go out on a date with a guy..who seemed like a very pretty cool guy....( this was yesterday)

I had a good time with this guy..who is very sweet and considerate.

 

Then my ex called today.......*SIGH*He asked me if I was being slutty for easter....and I told him no..but I did go on a date yesterday. He asked me if I had sex with the guy...( which I didn't) but he didn't believe me. He said I was lying to him..and I asked him why on earth he cares...he dumped me.

Then to make matters worse I asked him if he was still going to come up and live with me in a year.

He sort of laughed ...said that he wouldn't dream of it..I asked him why he was mad..and he said "you were supposed to find yourself and grow as a person, not start dating people"I told him he could still stay with me if he wanted..and he said he didn't give a damn what I did....and he would live by himself and he hung up.

 

Well, I was in a panic...cried for half an hour and called him back just to say that I know I had hurt him and I was sorry.

But when he answerd the phone.......he was like DONT CALL ME

F** OFF........and i was ridiculous....and still called him....to which he turned off his phone.

I am so utterly confused.... My head hurts from crying so much and I don't know why this is happening. My family thinks hes a narcissistic bastard who just likes to hurt me....

please someone help me.....because i really thought he loved me at one time I just dont know why hes doing this

[LucreziaBorgia]

I saw your other post and tried to answer there.