dsprimal Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 So long story short, I've been talking to this girl since july. We matched off tinder and we were supposed to go out on a date before summer ended before she went back to school....Never happened cause she said she was stressed, had to pack, and didnt want to give a bad first impression. Fastforward to thanksgiving when she came home. No date. excuse? lack of time cause it was a short break and that winter break would be better. Winter break? We decided to plan a set day for our date which was this past weekend. What happened? She texts "did you see how crappy the weathers going to be??". So I agreed and she asked "lets plan another time?" and I asked "are you busy this week?" and she said "after thursday I should be free I think" (Note the I THINK...I smelt BS again). So I ignored that statement, then she texts hours later asking "is this week ok for you?" and I continued to ignore her cause i'm just fed up with it all. I'm already set in my ways of not reaching out to her until she sends me another text (its probably an ego issue on my part). What should I do?
aggie382 Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 Are you trying to start a long distance thing with someone from Tinder? Don't play games. There's no reason for her to text again if you ignore her.
losangelena Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 I would expect not to hear from her again. Who sends a third text without getting replies to the other two? No one. 1
SomeDude16 Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 She's probably banging the quaterback at her college, she's just too nice to say and you're to stubborn. Move on.
Assada Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 Well, the first time she cancels, its on her to set another date. Not up to you to bother her about it like some puppy. Dont know why you can be mad at something online that didnt happen, Its the nature of the beast. You never met her. Just move on
Diezel Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 This has been going on for six months, you've never seen her and you're honestly asking if she is stringing you along? 1
Author dsprimal Posted January 8, 2015 Author Posted January 8, 2015 I'm thinking of asking one last time then finally admitting how ridiculous it is how we have yet to meet yet. If she bails this final time then i'm definitely done. Good idea? cause she did ask to plan another time and if this week was ok for me.
Author dsprimal Posted January 8, 2015 Author Posted January 8, 2015 you know whats the worst thing? she sends me snapchat pics of her legs in the bathtub. This keeps me wanting to ask her out cause I wanna be the guy getting that!! Other things she would do is text me about how shes with other guys, or text me about how her room was so hot that she was sweating and practically stripped off her clothes to feel better. All texts geared towards being sexual. But in the beginning when we first started talking she said "I dont want a dog. I dont want you to be like that!" cause I was super sexual in the beginning. but now shes hitting around the bush on being sexy but doesnt like it when the topic gets brought up? UGH YOUNG GIRLS SUCK.
Diezel Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 It's your fault for putting up with it. She knows that whatever she is doing is working solely for the attention. You should have just kept being super sexual. Obviously, playing it her way has gotten you nowhere.
truth_seeker Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 So long story short, I've been talking to this girl since july. We matched off tinder and we were supposed to go out on a date before summer ended before she went back to school....Never happened cause she said she was stressed, had to pack, and didnt want to give a bad first impression. Fastforward to thanksgiving when she came home. No date. excuse? lack of time cause it was a short break and that winter break would be better. Winter break? We decided to plan a set day for our date which was this past weekend. What happened? She texts "did you see how crappy the weathers going to be??". So I agreed and she asked "lets plan another time?" and I asked "are you busy this week?" and she said "after thursday I should be free I think" (Note the I THINK...I smelt BS again). So I ignored that statement, then she texts hours later asking "is this week ok for you?" and I continued to ignore her cause i'm just fed up with it all. I'm already set in my ways of not reaching out to her until she sends me another text (its probably an ego issue on my part). What should I do? She sounds like an idiot. If you really like her, you make a date to meet. Set a day, time and place. If she cancels, delete her.
Assada Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 She's using you for an ego boost. If I wasnt clear before...Leave her alone, find some other chick to talk to. Desperation desnt look good man 1
Author dsprimal Posted January 9, 2015 Author Posted January 9, 2015 well I never ended up texting her. we're going on 4 days of silence now. If she ever comes around to texting me again for a 3rd time then i'll let her know how I feel on the situation. For now i'm standing firm cause this girl from the beginning didn't seem like the type to do this. She kept saying how she likes honesty and doesn't like douche bags and has no time for "BS".
Author dsprimal Posted January 9, 2015 Author Posted January 9, 2015 It's your fault for putting up with it. She knows that whatever she is doing is working solely for the attention. You should have just kept being super sexual. Obviously, playing it her way has gotten you nowhere. Agreed, a friend of mine told me something similar to that. pretty much whatever she told me not to do I should have done the exact opposite. a girl saying not to be a dog is a girl asking for a dog.
Diezel Posted January 9, 2015 Posted January 9, 2015 well I never ended up texting her. we're going on 4 days of silence now. If she ever comes around to texting me again for a 3rd time then i'll let her know how I feel on the situation. For now i'm standing firm cause this girl from the beginning didn't seem like the type to do this. She kept saying how she likes honesty and doesn't like douche bags and has no time for "BS". Um. She doesn't care that you aren't talking to her, OBVIOUSLY. She'll come back around, you'll tell her how you feel, she'll "apologize" and you'll keep trying and she'll keep stringing you along. Sometimes when they say they like honesty and don't like douchebags and don't have time for BS... it means THEY don't want to DEAL WITH IT, but they are more than happy on doing it themselves.
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