superchiefs Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 So my ex broke up with me over 3 years ago. However, I check out her social media profile every once in a while just to see how she is doing. She has since gone through a few relationships. Every time she gets dumped, she posts the typical whoa is me type of stuff, getting people to give her sympathetic responses, and then a few days later, out of no where, she starts talking trash on me. I just don't understand why she hates me so much when she is the one that broke up with me. The reason she broke up with me was because she fell in love with a married coworker of hers that she said could do things for her that I couldn't. She said I hadn't treated her right all the time over the 7 years we were together, sometimes I bought her the wrong gifts, other times I was insensitive towards her feelings because I refused to wear a seatbelt. She had a pretty good sized list of things to take me down and justify her decision. Then he cheated on her and she reached out to me, asking me to grab lunch. However, by that time, I had started dating someone else, so my response was that I would have to ask my girlfriend if it was ok. That infuriated her and I haven't spoken to her since. So my question is, why is it that every time a guy dumps her and she reaches the anger phase, why is it she starts talking trash on me instead of the guy that just dumped her? Is this a common thing or is she just crazy?
Light Breeze Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 Nope it's not common. My guess is she had pretty strong feelings for you and got peeved when she lost her chance to get back with you. HOWEVER, the more important question is, why do you care? You're checking her FB that much that you know everytime she gets dumped? Brother, I suggest if you still have your mind bothered by an ex of 3 yrs ago, then please block/unfriend her. Imo, you're still grasping at your past.
Eddy Street Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 I'd feel threatened. Don't look at her profile. If possible stay away.
lil hoodlum Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 She acts like this because it makes her feel better about herself. Instead of focusing her anger at herself for her crummy life choices, she lashes out at you. You should feel sorry for her. It is apperent that there is something missing inside of her.
toscaroscura Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 *looks at posting history* You blame her for hanging on, but you hang onto her too, even after all this time. I'd tell you to go NC, but something tells me you won't and you two will spend another 3 years angsting over each other. 1
Eddy Street Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 I agree with the above answer. You need to move on. Forget about her, let her sort this out on her own. You live only once and not that long at that.
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