predator8u Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 hey everyone im new and i need some input..... okay so i found this super crazy hot chick online and we've been talking for like 3 weeks now and we called each other up a few times.... she seems to be interested since she keeps messaging and emailing... anyway I convinced her to meet with me,,, but isaid we should just do luch since its kinda weird meeting people online... wanna make her comfortable So she suggested waffle house for lunch..... the thing is.... its like a date at mcdonalds what do i do to make it interesting if I run out of things to say or something...... online i can just say nonsense but in real life its different .... i think i might get nervous and turn her away..... i was thinking of doing something crazy or spontaneous like pretending it was her birthday and have the restaurant sing or something when she comes in,,,,,, there is a jukebox in there i heard.... should ve dance or something..... i know execution is key,,,, and i'm worrying too much....... i can usually talk very confidetly with women whom i really don't like.... they can be attractive, but if i have feelings for them... i get nervous..... so i wanna prepare for this one please help thanks
moimeme Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 i was thinking of doing something crazy or spontaneous like pretending it was her birthday and have the restaurant sing or something when she comes in,,,,,, there is a jukebox in there i heard.... should ve dance or something..... Really, no. Don't do that. The way to converse with someone is to ask questions. Based on how the person answers, you end up talking about something. You're there meeting a brand new person who's lived a whole life before she met you. There should be plenty to ask her about.
tokyo Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 She obviously wants to keep it light and easy, so leave it at that. Do not come up with any "interesting" ideas. You look like you will surely scare her away by being to clingy and expecting too much. Some people like to take it slow. Be nice and attentive, not eager. That's it. Take it what it is, a nice first meeting. If you act like it's more you will come across as desperate.
CurlyIam Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 Maybe it's nothing, but I've noticed your nickname and with your blind date over the internet.. that makes it scary ! Just be yourself when you meet her. Ask her stuff about herself without being too intruding. Let her lead the conversation at times too. Just be cool and don't overdo it!
Donut Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 Ask questions about her friends, family, job, hobbies, top five movies, music etc. Just engage in an interesting "getting to know you" conversation. There will be some awkward silent moments at first, but after a while it'll wear off and you'll either both feel comfortable or you won't. Don't do anything wacky, it will put her off.
Author predator8u Posted March 28, 2005 Author Posted March 28, 2005 hahahha thanks a lot for the advice
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