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What is wrong with me?


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We broke up about 2 months ago after 10 months together.

I took it very badly as she lied the whole time about the reasons and strung me along for a month while she was vine swinging. I have been in NC for the last month.

Last night a friend of mine told me she had posted a photo on FB of her and her new man.

I didn't look at it, but somehow it destroyed me inside. She never posted any photos of us when we were together, so it just reinforced that i was nothing to her.

Couldn't sleep last night, and feel like I've almost undone weeks of NC.

What is wrong with me?

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Nothing is wrong with you. You & her were a bad fit. I don't know why because I don't know either of you.

 

Try to use her actions as a way of disconnecting from her because clearly she treated you badly & was untrustworthy.

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I'm trying to let go of the hope that one day she will just show up back in my life. I know I could never take her back, but the thought just sticks in my head. This sucks.

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Trust me she isnt coming back, nor will she contact you. I went through something very similiar, almost 10 months together, she strung me along with lies while she slept around on the side. Broke up with me, and 2 weeks later I saw her posting pics with my friend I introduced her too. Same situation she never posted pics of us, so I was dedeviated to see the 2 of them.. it gets better man, just live your life and see her for what she really was. I'm sorry that you had to go through this brother, stay strong!

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Thanks Man. I guess I needed a reality check.

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