FixItCris Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 We broke up about 2 months ago after 10 months together. I took it very badly as she lied the whole time about the reasons and strung me along for a month while she was vine swinging. I have been in NC for the last month. Last night a friend of mine told me she had posted a photo on FB of her and her new man. I didn't look at it, but somehow it destroyed me inside. She never posted any photos of us when we were together, so it just reinforced that i was nothing to her. Couldn't sleep last night, and feel like I've almost undone weeks of NC. What is wrong with me? 1
d0nnivain Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Nothing is wrong with you. You & her were a bad fit. I don't know why because I don't know either of you. Try to use her actions as a way of disconnecting from her because clearly she treated you badly & was untrustworthy. 1
Author FixItCris Posted January 12, 2015 Author Posted January 12, 2015 I'm trying to let go of the hope that one day she will just show up back in my life. I know I could never take her back, but the thought just sticks in my head. This sucks.
polaske93 Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Trust me she isnt coming back, nor will she contact you. I went through something very similiar, almost 10 months together, she strung me along with lies while she slept around on the side. Broke up with me, and 2 weeks later I saw her posting pics with my friend I introduced her too. Same situation she never posted pics of us, so I was dedeviated to see the 2 of them.. it gets better man, just live your life and see her for what she really was. I'm sorry that you had to go through this brother, stay strong! 1
Author FixItCris Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 Thanks Man. I guess I needed a reality check.
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