habes11289 Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 alright let me explain my situation, i am in high school and i would say im a pretty popular guy. i get along with everyone. now my problem comes in when it comes to getting a girlfriend. it always seems that every girls sees me as a brother or as a really good friend. its just that its kind of getting old with all the girls telling me this. my friends say im too nice but how can i be too nice i dont get it. what can i do to make myself more appealing to girls. i dont smell, im not beautiful but im not ugly. wat more can i do than to be nice to girls?
Arch_123 Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 Be a little cocky/arrogent with them. It's hard to describe, but think of Tom Cruise in Top Gun--that kind of cocky. It suggests confidence, but not distain. Make eye contact, don't be afraid to take small, harmless shots at them in fun (if a girl you like comes in with way too much makeup on, you could jokingly say something like "Who's pimping you out?"), and learn some jokes. If you have many girls who think of you as a good friend, ask one of them to help you out! Most women are very open to this sort of help--hell, if you ask one of them to go shopping with you for clothes girls dig, they'd probably jump at the chance. If you really have this many girls who think of you as a brother or good friend, then your problem shouldn't take much to solve. Ask them to help you!
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