Broom Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 How do you determine if a guy is really only talking to you because he views you as a conquest that he must crack to boost his ego? And how do you know that if you reciprocate or go further that a guy will not withdraw because he feels he's won you and got the satisfaction he needed?
fred123 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 as a guy myself i act differently when i really like a girl. im excited and looking forward to hear from her all the time etc. its hard for you girls to detect if you are being used as an ego boost. my only suggestion is to not be emotionally involved and see what his actions are. does he take you on dates? is he romantic and making an effort. i will tell you something about me. iv been with girls i just wanna sleep with or just have an ego boost with too. how i treat them? im into them at the beginning but they chase me. i never tske them out to nice dinners or anything. i only hang with them in the bedroom. now if its a girl i really like. i book nice dinners. musical plays. i want to speak with her on the phone. i ask lots of questions about her. i dont talk about sex with her. im a gentleman. i try and romance her and show her that i see her has gf material. i put in time money and emotional investment with the ones i really like. yes i get ****ed over sometimes and i get played and led on too:( hope that helps
umirano Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I'm a guy, but I'd suggest you don't give in too soon, without playing games. But make him show he's genuinely interested. Open up step by step, to see how he accepts everything that makes you you. And look at his friends and past dating behavior. Look at how he talks about relationships in general and his goals. All those things should give you a clue how he views serious relationships and investment in other people.
d0nnivain Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 You watch all of his actions. Does he go out of his way for you? Does he seem interested in you or just talk to you when he wants something? What is the little voice in your head telling you?
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