Concreteman78 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 My gf has an obsession with FB. ALWAYS on her phone going thru FB, liking, commenting, browsing. Takes her phone with her to the bathroom, out to the garage to smoke (i dont smoke), everywhere. If she sets it down and walks away...she will freak if anyone touches her phone. So...being i see her on it constantly with messenger constantly popping up with new messages from people. She fell asleep on the couch months ago and i took a quick look....and found messages from other guys and past hookups a talking about sex and the such. What to do....what to do.... I deactivated my FB 2 weeks ago and she just noticed YESTERDAY.
PegNosePete Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 FB has nothing to do with it. Don't blame the tool. The user is at fault. Dump her. She's clearly cheating on you. Faithful people do not talk about sex with past hookups etc. 3
dichotomy Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 i took a quick look....and found messages from other guys and past hookups a talking about sex and the such. . Really? You canceled YOUR FB account? Cancel your ....relationship with her. 3
jezzika Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 While I don't agree with the invasion of privacy, you read the messages months ago and you're still with her? 1
Author Concreteman78 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 I deactivated my account for a couple reasons. first reason is that of one of the guys she was talking to about sex (this was a month or two ago) i sent a friend request. I guess he finally came around and seen it the other day and she asked me why i sent him one. Well...if had been sometime and it was late at night and all i said was i dont really remember why. She got up and went to the garage to smoke (of course with her phone) and I picked up my phone and deactivated my FB and deleted the app off my phone. Second is that FB is more of Dramabook in my opinion. All bragging, drama, and just general high school drama about whos doing what who and when. Third...im tired of catching myself staring at my phone feeding into this when I have so much in front of me to pay attention to than that crap. Todays society has lost its ability of face to face communication. Seriously, walk around a shopping center or something and look at the amount of people staring at their phones not even paying attention to whats around them.
Author Concreteman78 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 While I don't agree with the invasion of privacy, you read the messages months ago and you're still with her? Yes...it may be classified as invasion of privacy. But a few months ago she said she had nothing to hide and gave me the access code to her phone. I never had or have my phone locked...she can go thru mine anytime. In fact when i come home...i set my phone on the table or nightstand and leave it there for I would rather spend my time at home doing things other than staring at that thing.
jezzika Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Interesting. So, she has nothing to hide and is ok with you knowing that she has sexual conversations with other men. Are you ok with her having sexual conversations with other men? The only thing that bothers you is that she has an obsession with facebook? 1
Author Concreteman78 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 Interesting. So, she has nothing to hide and is ok with you knowing that she has sexual conversations with other men. Are you ok with her having sexual conversations with other men? The only thing that bothers you is that she has an obsession with facebook? She doesnt know I know of these convos. I do believe she is an attention seeker for she always is the loudest most outspoken person in any group or setting we are in.
Satu Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Your relationship is over. The only thing to be decided is who walks away first. 1
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