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Speaking to this girl I kinda already knew, been texting back and forth, flirting and stuff and I suggested going out to which she said she'd like to and we made plans for a date.

 

The thing is, yesterday when we made the plans she was really talkative and seemed really interested..today all of a sudden she's giving short answers and it feels like I'm having to try really hard to keep a conversation going, sorta like she's going hot and cold on me.

 

Any ideas or advice?

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Well did you make definite plans: when and where to meet?

If so, I'd hold off on the daily converaations, and just meet and see how it goes first.

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Well did you make definite plans: when and where to meet?

If so, I'd hold off on the daily converaations, and just meet and see how it goes first.

 

Yeah we arranged a day and a place to go.

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She just answered pretty bluntly to a text I just sent, so I'm not going to bother replying and see if she initiates conversation again

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She just answered pretty bluntly to a text I just sent, so I'm not going to bother replying and see if she initiates conversation again

 

It's possible that she's having a bad day or something.

But I agree - some space will be good. Hope the meeting goes well!

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She just answered pretty bluntly to a text I just sent, so I'm not going to bother replying and see if she initiates conversation again

 

Yeah, you dont need to do anymore texting.

Needy texts are the classic "How are you?"

another needy text "what are you doing?"

 

Just ask if she is ready like an hour or so before you guys go out. No more superfluous texting

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