mystique024 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Hi I am new in here. Am feeling confused and don't know what is the next step to do. Story goes:- I got to know this guy (called him X) quite a while and only recently met him after I broke off from my ex bf last Sept. Upon meeting I noticed that he is a nice guy etc..and we got feelings for each other after a new meet ups. Basically a woman's instinct, I felt that I wanted to do a check on this guy and I googled. (He has 3 mobile numbers which I knew). What makes me felt surprised was the 3rd number he gave has a lot of issues in another forum. (I wont say which forum is it). When I texted him and question him, he denied it was not him. gave alot of excuses. There was a lot of discrepancies as to what he told me and what was revealed by forummers. (His workplace, designation, marital status, home address) He said that someone is out to spike or sabotage him. It even revealed that he has a wife. I do not wish to believe all the stories I read in that forum as I myself have not seen the picture of the person they are talking about. I am very confused right now. I still have feelings for him but at the same time I do not wish to be in a situation which is rather complicated. He will kept denying it. Is there any other way to find out? Need help!
Toodaloo Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Yes he is lying. Run. Fast. As far away as you can... 1
Frank2thepoint Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Guy has three mobile numbers? Why? Regardless, he is most likely lying to you. He became defensive really quickly, especially claiming someone is doing it out of spite or sabotaging him. Run. Fast. As far away as you can... It's not a tsunami or earthquake she is avoiding. She can just walk away, leisurely and carefree. 1
Ieris Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Well done for doing some background research first. Big red flag right there, don't ignore it and save yourself from future heartache. Like the other members have said.. move on swiftly.. x
Toodaloo Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 It's not a tsunami or earthquake she is avoiding. She can just walk away, leisurely and carefree. I dunno Frank the amount of damage of of you guys can cause may just as well be!
Author mystique024 Posted January 8, 2015 Author Posted January 8, 2015 Thanks everyone for the reply. Yes I do wish to move on, eventhough I still have feelings. Dunno when will feel better.
Toodaloo Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 Thanks everyone for the reply. Yes I do wish to move on, eventhough I still have feelings. Dunno when will feel better. You will feel better in your own time. It will be pants for a while but you will feel better and the great news is that there is a plethora of wonderful men out there who will not do this to you.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 Hi I am new in here. Am feeling confused and don't know what is the next step to do. Story goes:- I got to know this guy (called him X) quite a while and only recently met him after I broke off from my ex bf last Sept. Upon meeting I noticed that he is a nice guy etc..and we got feelings for each other after a new meet ups. Basically a woman's instinct, I felt that I wanted to do a check on this guy and I googled. (He has 3 mobile numbers which I knew). What makes me felt surprised was the 3rd number he gave has a lot of issues in another forum. (I wont say which forum is it). When I texted him and question him, he denied it was not him. gave alot of excuses. There was a lot of discrepancies as to what he told me and what was revealed by forummers. (His workplace, designation, marital status, home address) He said that someone is out to spike or sabotage him. It even revealed that he has a wife. I do not wish to believe all the stories I read in that forum as I myself have not seen the picture of the person they are talking about. I am very confused right now. I still have feelings for him but at the same time I do not wish to be in a situation which is rather complicated. He will kept denying it. Is there any other way to find out? Need help! How is it that his phone number, googled, came up with a forum with his information attached??? What kind of forum is this that they prey on personal information laid out in public like that? How can that even be trusted? The only website I know where private information is posted publicly like that Facebook, and that's because that information is volunteered. It has such strong consequences attached with it that even Facebook has to make you sign a bunch of "I realize this **** is public" type of liability release when you start your account. Even using a picture that you took, without your permission, can be grounds for a lawsuit and termination of that website along with a compensation. Look, I'll admit this guy sounds like he's full of ****. That being said, I want to question the credibility of a forum that you found googling a mobile number. It's quite easy to manipulate PUBLIC responses. Even this forum has members who will create multiple accounts for the purposes of agreeing with their own psychopathic ways of thinking. I would suggest you do some homework beyond the scope of this forum. Although, depending on the website as it could be extremely credible, there are ways to check if the guy you read about is the same guy you are seeing. If it IS the same guy, good riddance!
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