Kristine Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I can't leave this guy and I don't know why. Maybe it's time to schedule with my therapist. Eviction and homelessness are on the horizon.
Frank2thepoint Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 For some, suffering is easier, and enjoyable, than healing.
Gloria25 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I'm gonna tell a personal story here... My mum, had kids before she met my pops. She left those kids, moved and instead of working hard and sending for her kids, she got with my dad and had us. My dad didn't want us or her. He didn't provide for us either. Thank God for his mother (my grandmother) stepping in and putting a roof over our heads. My mum didn't care to leave, to work hard and save money, to take my dad to court and get support. She just kept on working and giving him her money. She put up with cheating, abuse, etc. I met my half-siblings when I got older and they hate her. They hated how she left them as kids with her mother and didn't even send for them. I have a strained RL with her, cuz in my eyes, she only had us to "trap" my dad, let us watch her get abused and didn't be strong for us. Oh, BTW, when I was like in my tweens, she just "stopped" doing anything. I and one of my sisters took over the cooking, cleaning, shopping, everything. She would just sit down and be depressed all day. IMO, when you have children, the children need you. That takes sacrifice and commitment. When I see people more worried about keeping one side of their bed warm, it reminds me of my mum. She put her desire for my dad over us - all the time.
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