jhonnyftball Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 So I dated this girl for about a year and a half. (8 months broken up) I'm not over it which is why I'm writing. Our relationship was the one my friends had almost looked up to and try to emulate. It wasnt, she cheated on me once (that I knew about) and I could feel her wanting to pull away. Anyway, it ended in an awful way, on April fools day, which had to signify some dark twisted way to put me in misery. After that we really didnt talk for about 3 months. Then at the end of summer we started talking again and everything came crashing in. I was in a fraternity and there was another guy who tried to get with her while I was still dating her. August comes around and were hanging out for a few weeks and I find shes basiclally dating this guy. Supposed to be "brothers", supposed to do the exact opposite of this. Obviously, I was heart broken again. She lied, cheated, broke my heart a few times yet I cant seem to get over it. She's clearly not right for me, so why am I hanging on to this for so long. I can't bring myself to be "ok" with the fact she's with [brother]. Any advice?
headinthecloud Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Don't pressure yourself to get over the RS...it takes what it takes. Especially, when it comes to betrayal. That is one of the worst ways to end a RS. Just keep moving forward. In time, the pain will pass.
Marco Valerio Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Hello my friend: I'm just in the same situation, I had a cheater and a liar ex GF, we've been broken up for 13 months, for the first 6 months we were in very very LC, and then I went NC for the rest 7 months. It feels terrible difficult to get over someone you loved and who betrayed you deeply, but you have no keep moving on little bt little. It doesn't matter how long it takes you, the point is getting over it!! Best regards friend. 1
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