daddydater4 Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 So I was getting very lonely, and just wanted to find someone to share a night with. So i posted an ad on craigslist under men seeking men. I met this older guy, maybe about 30 years older than I am. He was patient about waiting till after the Holiday to meet me since I was working non stop. So yesterday, I met him for the first time ever. We met in a public place, and I followed him home. When we got there, we talked for about an hour and a half. It was great. He told me about his life, his job, his hobbies. Although he did most of the talking, I did tell him a good deal about myself. Like he said, I couldn't have met a nicer guy. After we talked, he heated up his room and we got in his bet. The amazing thing is that it didn't feel like I was being used. It felt completely mutual and I didn't want it to stop. We cuddled, he kissed me several times, i gave him a kiss back, and he just held on so tight. Although it did get a little embarrassing when I couldn't get it in, but we laughed it off, and he said that at least we tried. He gave me a kiss before I left, and I went home. I never thought that I would feel this strongly about someone I only met. Maybe it's because I haven't had a relationship in such a long time, and this guy is basically everything I ever wanted. I know that it might seem weird to other people because of the age difference, but to me it doesn't matter. And I do know that there will be a time where he might be gone long before me, but at a time like this, i don't care. He's nice, and caring, and he didn't objectify me at all. He also has a lot of really good qualities. I know that I'm not gonna be saying anything any time soon since we're still technically strangers. I just wanted to know if I should look out for signs that he wants to start a relationship. For now we are just friends, but i am willing to make it more with someone like him. Anyone got anything?
Leigh 87 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 30 years older hey... and your username is "daddydater":o I hope this is for real. Well, if a man wants a relationship he will do the following things: - he will initiate a text or one call a day; doesn't have to be HEAPS of texts, but a guy who is into you and is genuinely interested in getting to know you more will initiate at least one text or phone call per day - he will ask you out on a date at least once per week, and if less than that he will explain to you why (work stressors and he lives far away and the like) -he will not be flakey and he will make plans and stick to them - he will not stang you up - if he has to cancel a date he will CALL you, he will apologise and then he will set up another date - after a month or two he will introduce you to his friends and family - he will hang out with you without having to get to the bedroom If he just asks lovey dovey when you are together and yet he doesn't initiate texts daily, and you are the one who has to ask to get together then sorry but he is not into you for more than just a casual hook up. You are awfully young for him so he is less likely to take you seriously!
Author daddydater4 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 well since we did just meet, i'm not necesarily expecting anything crazy for now, maybe a few months in. and since he is that old, he sorta sucks at texting, and with the whole friends and family thing,he did talk about them quite a bit. although i will not be able able to introduce people in my life because of my christian background and if they were to find out, i would be basicly disowned
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