Satu Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Knowing what you know about him, you are volunteering to be abused. Volunteers have the right to walk away. So walk away. 1
BC1980 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I didn't want to just walk away. I thought maybe if I treated him very well and did things to make him happy it would make him treat me nicer. But nothing I ever did seemed to be enough. I'm a people pleaser :/ That's co-dependent. You sacrifice yourself in the hopes that someone else will change. Besides, it won't work. It always escalates and there become more demands to live up to. It's never enough. 1
veggirl Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 These threads are depressing. OP you need to change your number or block his # and get into counseling asap...but you will probably disappear from the thread and be back together with this freak of nature within a week
Chi townD Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 How is he abusive if you threw a chair at him first? QUOTE] He smacks me on the leg all the time and tells me to shutup in front of people. He constantly shoves me and pushes me. He even twisted my arm backwards because i smacked him back for smacking me on the arm and telling me to shutup. It built up inside me and I had enough. Drinking didn't help. He weighs about 200. I weigh 100 pounds. Take that into perspective. i usually just shutup and take it. You're abusive to each other. BOTH of you are guilty of this. However, this should open your eyes as to how toxic this relationship is. This isn't a kind, caring and loving relationship. It's time to walk away. If he calls again, ignore it! If he starts poking around, get a restraining order. It's time to move on.
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