PinguPenguin555 Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) To say the least I like this girl, we are friends at the moment but she has said before that in her eyes I am actually quite attractive, but as the time as I was in another relationship so I couldn't really do anything anyway. The door was always open for it, a few months afterward I became single again, but well even though we talked once and a while neither of us really just made a move. (It's good to mention she's also stubborn, in fact one of the most stubborn girls I know) To say the least as it's obvious that she is looking for a relationship, but even then she now tends falls for the wrong guys so easily, the recent example was this guy that told her that he liked her even though he was dating someone, which then he just dropped both of them for a third girl altogether. I'm not the type of guy to do that, but I am certain I have the ability to get together with her as we almost did not too long ago. Anyway, I'm just looking for some form of direction. How can I raise attraction between us enough for her to want to give us a chance? should I just try to not be a friend? Edit: It's also worth noting next week she wants to meet up in person, I haven't seen her in person for really quite a long time, it'll be nice but at the same time I don't know if by going I'm throwing myself in a fire or going to make things easier. Edited January 6, 2015 by PinguPenguin555
Dallers Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) To say the least I like this girl, we are friends at the moment but she has said before that in her eyes I am actually quite attractive, but as the time as I was in another relationship so I couldn't really do anything anyway. The door was always open for it, a few months afterward I became single again, but well even though we talked once and a while neither of us really just made a move. (It's good to mention she's also stubborn, in fact one of the most stubborn girls I know) To say the least as it's obvious that she is looking for a relationship, but even then she now tends falls for the wrong guys so easily, the recent example was this guy that told her that he liked her even though he was dating someone, which then he just dropped both of them for a third girl altogether. I'm not the type of guy to do that, but I am certain I have the ability to get together with her as we almost did not too long ago. Anyway, I'm just looking for some form of direction. How can I raise attraction between us enough for her to want to give us a chance? should I just try to not be a friend? Edit: It's also worth noting next week she wants to meet up in person, I haven't seen her in person for really quite a long time, it'll be nice but at the same time I don't know if by going I'm throwing myself in a fire or going to make things easier. The word friends is concerning. If you were friends to move from that to a relationship is always tricky. Move away from nice and head straight for the target. Don't delay on this one as it could already be done or hanging by a thread. Stubborn girls...never easy. You are just overthinking too much. Clearly you like her more than you are letting on to be thinking about things this much. You need to calm your sh*t. Hit the gym and think of this girl as lucky to be having the chance to meet you. When you meet make it very clear that you are interested with simple flirting, physical and eye contact and make sure the conversation goes to places that touch her senses and you have nothing to worry about. It really is not that hard. Edited January 6, 2015 by Dallers
Assada Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 OP you have to quit with the white knight mentality. Trying to save these girls from making these terrible mistakes. Move on and see other girls. If you like girls, try not to make them "friends"
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