what would happen if I called my summer fling from 2008?

[Eddy Street]

I realized I still have her number and if it still works, I could call her, just for kicks. I'd just be playful, no mention of anything form the past. We haven't spoken since February 2009. She stopped talking to me. How would she react?

[oldshirt]

. We haven't spoken since February 2009. She stopped talking to me. How would she react?

 

Depends on why she stopped talking to you.

[SomeDude16]

She's married and has 2 kids, don't do it.

[whichwayisup]

I realized I still have her number and if it still works, I could call her, just for kicks. I'd just be playful, no mention of anything form the past. We haven't spoken since February 2009. She stopped talking to me. How would she react?

 

If it ended badly, you calling her isn't a good idea. She may tell you to go F yourself.

 

Just leave it be. There's absolutely no point in reaching back into your past and calling her, playful or not, it's just not a good idea.

[Eddy Street]

If it ended badly, you calling her isn't a good idea. She may tell you to go F yourself.

Just leave it be. There's absolutely no point in reaching back into your past and calling her, playful or not, it's just not a good idea.

 

But maybe I am compliment fishing...

 

Anyway, the relationship didn't end bad because of me, although my being a shy young man probably had a lot to do with it. It was because of her, in her own words, she implied she didn't want to commit at that point in time, she wanted to travel the world and experiment before she became too old and I couldn't offer her that. Last conversation we had together she told me was that she thought I was an exceptional human being, kind of sweet if you ask me.

 

Do I want to get back with her? No, I'm just bored and I want to see what happens... psychological experiment maybe. What's the worst thing that could happen? She tells me "go kill yourself brah", that's not so bad, I've had worse. And as for her bf or husband hunting me down? She lives in Georgia now, I live on the opposite side of the map.

[SomeDude16]

But maybe I am compliment fishing...

 

Anyway, the relationship didn't end bad because of me, although my being a shy young man probably had a lot to do with it. It was because of her, in her own words, she implied she didn't want to commit at that point in time, she wanted to travel the world and experiment before she became too old and I couldn't offer her that. Last conversation we had together she told me was that she thought I was an exceptional human being, kind of sweet if you ask me.

 

Do I want to get back with her? No, I'm just bored and I want to see what happens... psychological experiment maybe. What's the worst thing that could happen? She tells me "go kill yourself brah", that's not so bad, I've had worse. And as for her bf or husband hunting me down? She lives in Georgia now, I live on the opposite side of the map.

 

 

That's p****ed up man. Don't do that, it's selfish

[Eddy Street]

That's p****ed up man. Don't do that, it's selfish

 

Maybe, but maybe it would flatter her. Maybe she's lonely and maybe I could just call as a friend.

[Gloria25]

IMO, your posts here about 'doing it cuz you're bored, and maybe she's lonely' is probably gonna wreak from your pores when you speak to her and she's gonna smell it ASAP.

 

If you're doing this for cheap thrills, please do not do this.

 

If you honestly just want to "check in" and see how she's doing and explore possibilities...then, I recommend you be sincere in your approach. Let her know you ran across her pics or something and figured you'd give her a ring...just curious to see how she was doing. I mean, if she left you to "travel the world" that would be a good reason to catch up with her - so she could tell you how it went.