Jordan185 Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 This girl that I work with and I are pretty friendly with eachother. We got eachothers number and snapchat and had some funny conversations. Randomly the other day I noticed that she had no best friends , which is strange because she always does. Turns out She isn't on my list of friends who added me anymore so I'm pretty sure she deleted me. Why though? I didn't even do anything. It's not like I bombarded her with snaps either maybe like 2 a week at most and nothing sexual.
doeblin Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 Don't try to read minds, because you'll go nuts. Don't confront her, act like you just don't care. Try to date other women. (There is a small chance it was an honest mistake, but still the above applies.)
Redhead14 Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 It doesn't matter. Any assumptions you make based on social media activities is a waste of energy. 1
Author Jordan185 Posted January 6, 2015 Author Posted January 6, 2015 How could anyone here possibly know? Ask her. I was just asking for potential reasons
EgoJoe Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 You didn't make a move and you have been nexted.
BlueIris Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 This girl that I work with and I are pretty friendly with eachother. We got eachothers number and snapchat and had some funny conversations. Randomly the other day I noticed that she had no best friends , which is strange because she always does. Turns out She isn't on my list of friends who added me anymore so I'm pretty sure she deleted me. Why though? I didn't even do anything. It's not like I bombarded her with snaps either maybe like 2 a week at most and nothing sexual. Don't speculate. Why not just ask her? Maybe there was some habit or manner you have that could be off-putting. If it was something, it would be nice to know.
Danda Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 I was just asking for potential reasons Okay fair enough. A potential reason is that she started developing more serious feelings for another guy and cut out any guys who she was also considering, basically honing in. I toss this potential reason out there because this is what I do when I reach a certain interest threshold towards a guy. It doesn't mean there was anything wrong with any other guy I might have been getting to know, but for me personally I find is stressful and awkward, and just vaguely off-putting to myself, to keep backburner guys around once I have developed a certain level of interest in a guy. I'm not saying it's actually inherently wrong to keep backburner options in limbo until you're actually exclusive, but just for me personally it doesn't feel right. So when I reach that threshold I tend to drop all other suitors. 1
SomeDude16 Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 Her phone got stolen; that's a potential reason.
newlyborn Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 Okay fair enough. A potential reason is that she started developing more serious feelings for another guy and cut out any guys who she was also considering, basically honing in. I toss this potential reason out there because this is what I do when I reach a certain interest threshold towards a guy. It doesn't mean there was anything wrong with any other guy I might have been getting to know, but for me personally I find is stressful and awkward, and just vaguely off-putting to myself, to keep backburner guys around once I have developed a certain level of interest in a guy. I'm not saying it's actually inherently wrong to keep backburner options in limbo until you're actually exclusive, but just for me personally it doesn't feel right. So when I reach that threshold I tend to drop all other suitors. THIS!!! you didn't do anything wrong. most likely, she has become more serious with someone and is clearing out contacts to be respectful of whatever is developing. i don't think you should worry about it or take it personally at all.
Author Jordan185 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 Okay fair enough. A potential reason is that she started developing more serious feelings for another guy and cut out any guys who she was also considering, basically honing in. I toss this potential reason out there because this is what I do when I reach a certain interest threshold towards a guy. It doesn't mean there was anything wrong with any other guy I might have been getting to know, but for me personally I find is stressful and awkward, and just vaguely off-putting to myself, to keep backburner guys around once I have developed a certain level of interest in a guy. I'm not saying it's actually inherently wrong to keep backburner options in limbo until you're actually exclusive, but just for me personally it doesn't feel right. So when I reach that threshold I tend to drop all other suitors. Haha well thank you for being helpful. I really do appreciate it. Oh well it it'll be awkward considering we work with eachother and will be seeing eachother at college. I'm not going to act any different though.
Author Jordan185 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 THIS!!! you didn't do anything wrong. most likely, she has become more serious with someone and is clearing out contacts to be respectful of whatever is developing. i don't think you should worry about it or take it personally at all. I'm trying not to take it personally it's hard but I'll manage. It's just weird ya know? It's just going to be different being around her at work and college. Thanks for your help.
SomeDude16 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Relax man it's snapchat. You are going to see her in person. Who the **** cares about a phone app?? Real life is much more fun.
Author Jordan185 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 Relax man it's snapchat. You are going to see her in person. Who the **** cares about a phone app?? Real life is much more fun. It's not that man it's just if she deleted me off there then I probably did something even sure what.
Danda Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 It's not that man it's just if she deleted me off there then I probably did something even sure what. Unlikely that you actually did something wrong. I mean sure it's possible, only you would really know, but it's unlikely. If you could go back in time and jot down every person on there, and then check it now, you are probably not the only person who was removed, either. Didn't you also say that she usually has "best friends" on there but no longer does? I'm not sure what exactly that means, I don't use this particular software, but I think that in itself just about proves it had nothing to do with you personally.
SomeDude16 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 It's not that man it's just if she deleted me off there then I probably did something even sure what. If you've only done nothing like you've said and she is mad, you don't want to be around her anyways. Snapchat is not a good indicator of personal perspective. Forget it even existed. If she changes how she interacts with you in person then you can start to worry, but for now just forget about it.
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