Author GH101 Posted January 9, 2015 Author Posted January 9, 2015 I have this problem....as a woman.....i know it feels rough and i hate it..i have it in the areas you describe.........i maintain in a relationship twice daily........its time consuming......my lip seems to have a shadow....it actually runs in my family.......on the maternal side......hormonal genetic whatever i hate it..... speaking from the womans point of view ....i would rather a guy leave if he cant handle the fact i have facial hair and that fact turns him off.....a lack of respect might ensue...and i cant handle that.......i do maintain.....i do make an effort to appear feminine....... my mum has begged me one thing when she is older and cant do it herself.....is that my sister and i maintain her face.......she didnt have to beg us...we would do it for her...withotu fail....ill never make my mum feel less than beautiful....as i really hope my kids will do it for me...i think and feel if you love someone...facial hair...should not be a turn off....which is really ironic for me to say because i have an aversion to beards on men......hypocrite.....that i am.......deb Sorry to hear you have this too. My friend said that's good advice about facial hair shouldn't be a deal breaker. Unfortunately society is so judgmental and vain. I think my friend is attractive and I really wouldn't notice her facial hair unless I really looked, she cleans up nicely. When I am with her and she hasn't taken care of it I will notice it, but I'm used to it and don't care. Nobody is perfect and I don't understand why society makes facial hair on women into a huge problem and taboo. I think of women have it they should take care of it the best they can, but if it's not perfect, I've seen worse on people.
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