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I've finally got to a stage where after a year of being FWB with someone we have made the jump to actually being publicly together and exclusive,

The problem starts here. Why be with someone that was not at all that interested in being with you in the first place? I don't understand how you expect respect from someone that had to be dragged into a relationship. Nothing good comes from this sort of set up.

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The problem starts here. Why be with someone that was not at all that interested in being with you in the first place? I don't understand how you expect respect from someone that had to be dragged into a relationship. Nothing good comes from this sort of set up.

 

Exactly. This is a huge red flag. FWB for a year? Do you know that it means that for whatever reason he didn't see you as good enough for a gf. Usually when guys change their minds like that it's because they grow comfortable, their other options didn't pan out and they worry about losing their supply of regular sex. Now THAT is really hurtful. If you got over that, small boobs comment is a nothing.

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