kenmore Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 Wow, I'm pathetic! You are all right. All of you. No Contact it is....I've got myself to work on. I'm going to keep coming back here instead of doing something stupid. There is nothing I can possibly say that will be helpful to anyone. SED, you are taking the wrong message here I think. First, you are in no way pathetic, in fact I think you are very strong! Strong enough to do what you think you should do, and trust me when I say you got a better response than I could have hoped for! Please don't be hard on yourself. you are feeling the inevitable...the pain of heartbreak I have felt so pathetic, but have realized it's part of the process. Look at my posts and you will see pathetic, right down to someone telling me so last week! But you know what? That gave me strength! None of us are pathetic, we are just friggin' down! We all feel pathetic when we're down. I felt useless, stupid and like nobody would want me, but then I started remembering my past! I remember only six years ago when I met my wife and she fell in love with me, and I was awesome! I haven't changed, I haven't suddenly turned into an ogre, I just went through this relationship crap. I'm still awesome! LOL So are you! You are the same wonderful person he fell in love with! you have that deep inside you. It's who you are. Nobody here would be here if someone didn't love them and there's a reason they did, and that's because we're awesome, don't ever forget that! Grasp ahold of yourself, peel that inner strength from your bones and stand tough, at least until the next weak moment, then come here. We will see you through your pain and give more advice that seems superfluous, but it really does have basis in reality. Ken
mtnbiker3000 Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 I remember only six years ago when I met my wife and she fell in love with me, and I was awesome! I haven't changed, I haven't suddenly turned into an ogre, I just went through this relationship crap. I'm still awesome! LOL So are you! You are the same wonderful person he fell in love with! you have that deep inside you. It's who you are. Nobody here would be here if someone didn't love them and there's a reason they did, and that's because we're awesome, don't ever forget that! Pretty solid!!!! 1
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