Thanasis Posted January 5, 2015 Posted January 5, 2015 My experience and mistakes speak here. She(he) does not return phonecalls and SMS's. She(he) does not respond the way we want her to. WE WANT HER BACK. WE BECOME DESPERATE We become desperate and we start calling. 1, 2 then 3 times a day. The worse part are the SMSs. This is because she receives complete desperation sentences from us asking "Why...", "I apologize....", "Please answer..." and ***** like that. If there were any single chance to get her back we lose it because we scare her ***** away for good.... We make her feel sick, obliged and depressed. (I did that mistake and I know) My Advice If you are acting out of desperation... AVOID SMSs, EMAILS, FACEBOOK, MESSENGERS. You will be exposed beyond recovery...... Also don't attempt to phone call more than once a week.... Aim for a straight one to one live meeting and interact like a Man with her (like a woman with him). If you can't control yourself, your SMS or Message should be exactly THIS: "Please let me know if you have time for a meeting tomorrow". REPEAT THE SAME MESSAGE if you can't control yourself but never change any of its words. If I can't persuade you not to attempt to call her, reduce the frequency to a maximum 1 phone call attempt. In case she ever replies to you ask her straight for a meeting. Leave out the emotional drama the "how good you are", the "Why..." etc. Your goal is to meet her. At the end of the day she does not respond. This is like smoking. If you don't cut it cold turkey you will find it difficult to cut it gradually. So make your self a favor and take some days off, go for a holiday and delete any item that reminds her to you.... Good luck !
preraph Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 I agree it's best to just make the phone call, but once a person has ignored your other attempts, it's really time to hang it up and move on. They are not interested.
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