prayformydownfall Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 hey everyone dont know if ppl have read my posts before, if u do u will see the mixed emotions followed by wen i hardened up!! i havent a clue how long its been since we broke up... and i went out 3 weeks ago friday to the local club... oddly enough shes there with her new bf..... i was told and i only saw her once holding hands with him, yet i was far too busy chatting up the most gorgeous girl in the place who has told me shes liked me for ages and 'was ecstatic' wen she heard i was single.... well i have seen the new girl a load of times (day and night) and its early to say this but shes amazing and we connect sooooooooooooooooo well... i mean i can actually have a conversation with her and she understands what i am saying... odd how iv never had that before!!!!!!!!!! we have started going out and i am livin it day by day and having so much fun!! my ex used to restrict me and hold me back, this girl actively encourages growth and for me to spend time with my mates keep ur heads up theres more life out there!!! makes me realise that the person who really appreciates u sets u free and doesnt hold u back emotionally..... well im off out to dinner with the new girl, ill keep u updated and take care of yourselves... please??? PFMD!!
greenhorn Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 Well PFMD, you are coping in a great way, wish everyone can cope with the same way
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 28, 2005 Author Posted March 28, 2005 i hope everyone will cope one day greenhorn, some ppl jus heal quicker than others i guess... mind u it has took me 6 months to get here, jus wanted to show everyone there is life after heartache
BrotherAaron Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 I got dumped for someone else by my girl about, oh, a month ago. I was heartbroken, depressed, emotionally all over the place. I even got kicked out of a party for "causing conflict" because she was there with the guy she left me for... and he happened to be friends with the party host. That was the end of denial for me. Well, spring break came along, and I met an amazing girl. Not only was she the most gorgeous girl I've ever been involved with, we hit it off great, and had an awesome time. Spring break just ended, and it's too bad I wont get to see her more, but it doesn't matter. It wasn't serious, but it was fun, and it got my mind off my ex completely. Nothing takes the sting away from loneliness like having somebody who is interested in you, even if it isn't serious. I'm still lonely, now that I'm home and have nobody to call on a slow night... but I've only been back for one day. I met this girl so easily... and there's no reason I can't meet more girls just as easily. I know I need to understand it's fine to be single, but that doesn't mean I can't play the field a little bit. We all need to be adored, especially after a breakup. Better to go start meeting new girls than sitting around mourning for one that abandoned you.
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 29, 2005 Author Posted March 29, 2005 true words, but depending on who u r its sometimes easier to get over it first before goin on the rebound, throwing urself too someone else, gettin attached and gettin hurt again.... i avoided all relationships and ppl after me and just worked out who i was and what i wanted from life, soon as i worked that out my confidence came back and i got chased instead of being the chaser... i know i like this girl and its not just a rebound... but time will tell if we can be successful together, but im quitely confident
BrotherAaron Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 I know what you mean about throwin yourself at someone, etc. It's why it can't be serious. This girl starting chasing me about 3 weeks after my ex dumped me. She knew who I was before, and when she heard I was single again... she decided to make her move. We hung out the first day of my spring break, and we hooked up a bit during spring break, but then I was outta there. This was understood from the beginning - she knew I was going home, and that I wanted "no drama" - and nothing could have been better for me. I've got my confidence back, since I was pursuded by an awesome and beautiful girl. My ex stopped bothering me when she heard through the grapevine I was seeing someone - not something I even wanted her to know, but I'm better off left alone anyway. I think it's always important not to throw yourself at anyone. That'll get you hurt anytime you do it. There's nothing wrong with a nice fling to get you back on your feet though.
Author prayformydownfall Posted April 2, 2005 Author Posted April 2, 2005 update---- ex has asked for me back - see post in second chances, now im confused!
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