preraph Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 I dont understand what is wrong with me, i cannot seem to get out of my singlehood. I am single for 1 year and a half with some casual dating in between. I am sick of being the only girl not dating around me. Everyone is in a relationship and i do not understand why not me. I am 26 (soon 27), i am really beautiful, smart, funny and interesting. I love cooking and i would invest myself at 100% in a relationship. I have some flaws like everyone but not something that is an absolute TURN OFF. I want to start a family, to have children and it seems impossible to find someone, i've used online dating and found some really nice people willing to be in a relationship with me but it is not my thing and i like things to go naturally so i stopped OLD. Without being arrogant, all the girls around me who are in a relationship are not that beautiful nor smarter, neither their boyfriends. I begin to think i am overqualified. I know I am very picky but I do not want to settle for less than I deserve. And everytime i find someone I like, i shy away and not able to talk to that person. I've read all the possible books regarding the law of attraction and positive thinking but i really cannot take it anymore. I do not deserve that and i am really sad. I was even thinking of killing myself if i do not have a family before 30 and the clock is ticking... it seems impossible to meet new people, i dont go out that much (because all my friends go with other couples so obviously i am not invited) and i dont like to go out alone. I know that hapiness comes from within and if we are happy everything will come and I am quite ok living on my own. I can make people interested in me but I myseolf only get intersted in a person, if this person ignores me or showing no interest. And i suffer, and lose time etc Honestly do not know what to do, i am really sad! My biggest fear is to end up alone forever without any kids nor husband (and i know i should not think that way because the law of attraction will take action in this direction and that scares me even more). So i am exhausted of too much thinking and i am just destroying myself. Please help! Stop taking those books so literally. Nothing ever just comes to you. You have to be proactive and go after what you want, whether that means just reaching out or means taking steps to improve yourself so you can get what you want. The universe rewards movement, not inertia. Go do things you enjoy and often to bring you in contact with people you have common interests with. And don't price yourself out of the game. 1
Author liove Posted January 6, 2015 Author Posted January 6, 2015 thank you very much all of you! i've read all of your messages with care and it really helped me! thanks a lot, it means a lot to me! you are right, i am exagerating (i am pisces, we usually do get anxious for nothing ) i will use all of your advice (starting from activities to books to read like the "feeling good" book). and i really dont read crap, i read everything related to metaphysics and scientific power of the brain and cosmic energy. i dont do books like "how to get the guy", etc etc. this is bulls**t indeed! and i always met guys who wanted a realtionship, so i know there are good guys out there. 2
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