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Just a general question. For your information, we're speaking of someone with a bipolar disorder (if that's relevant).

 

 

What does it mean whenever a woman gives you her all, and then gradually tries to take it all back? For months, we have talked about wanting nothing more than waking up next to one another; finally living with one another. Then she randomly says she still wants nothing more, but doesn't think it should happen right now.

 

This isn't the only situation that she has given something, and taken it away. That's just one of the examples. What does this mean?

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there are a couple reasons why a person may act this way.

1. they aren't sure about how they feel

2. they aren't sure if you really love them

3. they are emotionally incapable of a healthy relationship at this time

 

in general, as long as we can stay focused on loving and trusting, having faith in the person we love and our relationship, we will be loving and open with our partners. this will reassure our partners and increase their trust in the relationship. usually, it means they too will act more loving to you in return.

 

when we start to doubt or are troubled about our relationship or the person we love. we need to examine it to see if there are valid problems with the relationship. but then we need to stop worrying and start loving our partner. no matter how much we love someone, if all we show them is our anxiety and worry, it will weaken the relationship.

 

if we find that we are unable to stop worrying then we need to take some action to resolve the situation.

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