kitesandstars Posted January 5, 2015 Posted January 5, 2015 So on New Years, I went out with some friends. We didn’t end up going to a crazy, upbeat bar, but we did go to a pub which was still pretty busy. I had a drink… and then another… and then another… and I think you get the idea. Come midnight, I was so far gone I was ready to kiss anyone I saw. The two friends I went out with were dating, and I was third-wheeling pretty hard. My friends called over a guy who was walking buy, clearly hammered. I guess they thought I needed a midnight kiss. And he and I ended up making out. It was sloppy and drunk. Security had to pull us off of each other, and I’m kind of embarrassed, to be honest. I guess we exchanged numbers, cause he texted me the next day. We went out shortly after that, and hit it off pretty good. He took me out to dinner, and we randomly decided to see a movie afterward. We watched the third Hobbit movie, and neither of us knew what was going on because we hadn’t seen the other ones. He didn’t try anything, but he held my hand during the movie, and I fell asleep on his shoulder. He drove me home afterward, and at this point it was around midnight/12:30. He undid his seatbelt, so I asked him if he was gonna walk me to the door. He did, and I opened the door and let him in so we could say our goodnights inside, because it was freezing outside. I told him I had a good time, and he said we should do it again soon. Then we both kinda just… grabbed each other and started making out. I pulled away and said he should probably go, not in a serious tone, but kinda like a “my parents are sleeping upstairs and I’d rather not wake them up.” That was two days ago, and we’ve been texting still. Yesterday, I was complaining about a Christmas party I was at with friends, because I was the only sober one. He told me I should go over to his place, and me, being the straightforward person that I am, told him “maybe, if you promise not to try to get in my pants” to which he replied with “I promise. I want to get to know you first.” I was pretty happy with this response. We made plans to go out again tomorrow. I dunno, I guess my biggest worries are- he’s 27, and I’m 18. Did I give him the wrong idea? I don’t want him to think I’m easy. Yenno?
WonderWoman911 Posted January 5, 2015 Posted January 5, 2015 No, I don't think you gave him the wrong idea. You told him upfront where you stand ,as far as not having sexual relations. Im wondering since he's inviting you to his house, what does he have planned? Is he making you dinner,watching a movie? Because honestly,he knows how you are, especially when you have drinks in you.So I won't be surprised if he tries to make a move on you.He can "get to know you" outside of his house.(normal casual dates),you know what I mean? And also, what time does he want you to come over? If its the afternoon, he may act cordial.But if it's late at night......
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