Lightmetoday Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Some people say that you fell in love only once in your life , what happens other times is not love but just a likeness sort of something. What do you think about this?
Rydo Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 You would have to define love for me. To me its just a group of feelings, like, lust etc for one person. It happens as many times as you want it to.
Erised Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Some people say that you fell in love only once in your life , what happens other times is not love but just a likeness sort of something. What do you think about this? It's ridiculous. I recommend going to listen to Tim Minchin's If I Didn't Have You. 1
Ieris Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I believe we can fall in love again and again and again... As long as you're open to it x 2
CarrieT Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I'm 50 and have been in love dozens of times.... I still remember my first Great Love - at the age of 13 - and he and I are still close friends. 1
preraph Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 It's absolutely not true. And there is no one right person for you. The people who have the most success at love enjoy a wider variety of people. The people who have trouble finding love it can be because they have this fairytale image in their head that isn't going to happen or they have personal issues they need to work on first.
Snaggletooth Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 It could well be argued that those most successful in love do only love once.
Gloria25 Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Oh, along with the "soulmate" argument? So, if you fall in "love" once and it didn't work out, you're doomed? Or, like in the soulmate thing, you can only fall in love once. So, the world stops cuz you think you met your "soulmate" and/or are in "love"? Ok....what ever. I don't subscribe to that. For one, I think many people don't even know what love is. They are probably experiencing feelings, emotions, hornies, loneliness. Then, I think love is something you work on. Just like your faith. Just cuz you tell God "I believe" doesn't mean you're done. You will get tested. Same with "looooove". Not every day you're gonna wake up feeling great about your family members, spouses, friends. You are gonna have struggles. You are gonna have to work hard to keep the romance going. You are gonna have to work on the RL all the time. It doesn't stop. So, I don't subscribe to what a lot of people call "love". When they don't "feeeeel" it, they're quick to dump and/or divorce. They don't work on stuff. Also, they marry and/or get into RLs based on "feeelings", so when they get with the wrong person, they sometimes just stay there cuz they think that this is the only person they'll ever "looooove", aka the "soulmate".
amaysngrace Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 That's a pretty dumb statement. What if you have three children? Does only the first one get your love and the other two get nada? Or does the first one not get love either because you love your spouse? Ridiculous....
littleblackheart Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I really hope your first love isn't meant to be your one true love - mine was Michael Hutchence (INXS lead singer)... Some people are lucky in that the first person they end up with is the one for life for them, but I like the idea that it can happen more than once - gives a nice ray of hope. Before she met her husband, my friend would fall (and apparently stay) in love with every guy she was in a relationship with (and that was quite a few, in 15 years); she was in a perpetual state of extasy, and it was really sweet to watch. .
Satu Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Some people say that you fell in love only once in your life , what happens other times is not love but just a likeness sort of something. What do you think about this? Patently untrue, as 90% of the Human Race would tell you.
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