Evening Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I broke up with a guy few days back. Today I started feeling very bad about it. I mean, when we were together, I felt like something was missing, I was not honest about myself and now I am struggling cause I dont know how to be alone anymore. I dont like that feeling. I miss someone. I want to be in relationship again.
Elle1975 Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I understand that companionship is important, but it's true what they say; you have to be happy living life on your own before meeting someone. I believe you will have a better shot at building a healthy long term relationship that way. However, I do understand that "everybody needs somebody"; just not anybody. 2
welshbambi Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 The good thing I am getting from your post is that whilst you recognise you want companionship and the security of a relationship (entirely natural), you are not then deciding that getting back with your ex is the answer. It's great that you ahve realised that for whatever reason, although you want a relationship, your ex is not the right person for you. You have done the right thing for both of you and as hard as it is, your next step is exploring getting fulfilment elsewhere in your life rather than thinking that it can all be put right by getting another relationship. Trust me, you will never be happy while you are trying to fix things that way. What hobbies and interests do you currently have?
melell Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Perfectly normal, most people seek a partner, and find it comforting. You will get familiar with being alone again, it just takes time. You wouldn't remain happy if you stayed, and I think you know that. My advice: get familiar with being alone again, don't look for your ex for companionship, and don't monkey branch.
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