makeithappen Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Hello, I receive quite a few messages from guys, and while I appreciate the attention, I would not consider any 'marriage' material. I know it's pushing too hard, but I feel like with a lot of dudes, it sounds like we won't last. Plus, they just send me 'you look cute' messages, which makes me think, they just imagine themselves in bed with me, without really caring much about me as a person. So despite these negative impressions, do I still go ahead and give a few of them a chance? Thanks
JM89 Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I am in a very similar boat, which is why I've stopped actively pursuing OLD for now. My mentality is that I'm dating to find an eventual husband. Not saying immediately or anything like that, but I do have an end goal. Not a lot of men on OLD are looking for that. That said, I do think that you have to have somewhat of an open mind. I try not to base my opinion solely on the profile or solely on the message. If I'm intrigued by the profile but only get a "hey, what's up" message, I will respond. If the profile is nothing special but the message makes me think twice, I will respond. But, if I'm not into the profile OR the message, no response necessary.
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