CaliGirl2888 Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I've been texting/ emailing this guy back and forth for a few weeks. I'll admit we've even sexted a bit *cringe*. We never even talked on the phone so we never gotten a chance to really know each other. The last Ive heard from him was when he texted me first and said ''how are you?'' I responded with ''good, still adjusting to the south : /'' and he never responded. He has a busy career, but I checked his Facebook so I know he's fine. Its a vague question but I just want your opinion on why someone wouldn't respond, I mean he did text me first....A few months have gone by now and I can't stop thinking about him and I feel sad he lost interest in me. We live in different states so maybe he just didn't want to be bothered talking to me for that reason? I have a false hope he might of not seen my response and maybe he was expecting me to hit him up again? Why am I still thinking about this?
Detectingfreak Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 LDR never workout. Move on and find yourself a new man closer to you. He lost interest cuz your too far away.
Conners Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Well you didn't ask how he was going, a bit of a dead end conversation. I wouldn't of replied either.
coolheadal Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Need to get both of you on skype and talk for real. Use screen names its free never use cell phone numbers in skype then it's hard to get to the free user name calling. The other way you have to pay dearly. Or just call and the cell and talk. Text talk is limited. If this guy really digs you he will make he effort to talk on the cell. Give it time, if the wait is too long then move on to someone else. 1
Author CaliGirl2888 Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 I should of mentioned it but I did text. "how are you" after that
umirano Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 LDR never workout. Move on and find yourself a new man closer to you. He lost interest cuz your too far away. Garbage, my friend married his 5 year LDR partner this year. They seem quite happy. This Well you didn't ask how he was going, a bit of a dead end conversation. I wouldn't of replied either. and I should of mentioned it but I did text. "how are you" after that You don't come across as extremely interested in him to me either. Maybe you should sweeten it up a little. Text already takes out gestures, facial expressions and other emotional aspects of your communication. So if writing isn't your strength LDR / online relationships will be hard to form and maintain. I've been texting/ emailing this guy back and forth for a few weeks. I'll admit we've even sexted a bit *cringe*. We never even talked on the phone so we never gotten a chance to really know each other. The last Ive heard from him was when he texted me first and said ''how are you?'' I responded with ''good, still adjusting to the south : /'' and he never responded.[...]I have a false hope he might of not seen my response and maybe he was expecting me to hit him up again? Why am I still thinking about this? Because you hoped it'll be an easy catch? Dating behind the screen is safe and doesn't require many investments. But it's not very fulfilling mostly. I suggest you go NC. If he comes back to you, spice it up. But if he doesn't pursuing him via text will make you look needy and likely he won't find that attractive. 1
Author CaliGirl2888 Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 ''Text already takes out gestures, facial expressions and other emotional aspects of your communication'' You hit the nail on the head, I think we both lost interest. I need to be able to meet someone in person to flourish my interest in them. I'm assuming he is the same way. Texting gets boring real quick. I think I will only pursue someone who lives in the same state as me as well, so I can actually meet them in person.
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