okcool Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 (edited) Hey all, I've been in this relationship with this girl for about a month and a half. Everything went great and we clicked really well from the beginning. I'm not gonna lie, because of how much we clicked, things moved really fast Faster than I experienced before. It's only been a month and a half and we basically already decided that we love each other. We bot agree that the feelings are there and we do see us ending up together. Anyway, long story short - she feels like we've been occupied with each other that she needed some space for her self. She said she needed a week away from me (from talking everyday since we live 2 hours from each other). I told her that I feel like it's a break up and she said that it isn't and everything is fine. We talked before the break and she said she loves me right before we hang up but basically we aren't able to contact each other (she said occasional good night texts are fine). Am I overthinking this whole thing? Should I treat this like a break up? She is currently sick and having that time of the month. Could that be the reason why? I'm so used to talking to her 24/7 and I am missing her. What should I do? Every time I look at the phone, I want to call her and I can't. This is why I feel like it's a real break up. Should I try to hit her up in several days? Should I even send her a good night text tonight? Any suggestions? Thank you in advance. Edited January 4, 2015 by okcool
Ieris Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Don't over think and stress yourself out over nothing. Just give her the space she wants, when things are intense it can become suffocating so give her some breathing room. Don't get all needy as this will put her off and push her away. Get busy doing your own things, what did you do before you met her? Fair enough you met someone, it doesn't mean you stop living your own life. Send her goodnight if you want but not all the time, give her the opportunity to miss you too. Hope things work out for you x 2
Light Breeze Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Don't get all needy as this will put her off and push her away. This^^ Seen it many times. You think you've been nice, vulnerable, and in love but the truth is girls hate it (in general), and chances are it won't end well. Be happy with yourself, get some hobbies, go out with friends and before you know it you're relationship's gonna improve. Good Luck!
Author okcool Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 Thank you so much for the responses. They both made complete sense and exactly what she said. Should I initiate the first contact? So far I'm planning to not contact her at all for couple of days and just let her have her space. I'm not even gonna text her good night.
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