Mark1 Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I am 25, this woman is 45. Total cougar. I met her volunteering, but she was only there the first day, so I only met her once. During that day, she was flirting a lot, but I tend to misread signals, so I thought she was just being friendly to me. Even so, I added her on Facebook, I figured I had nothing to lose. I hadn't seen her in about 6 months. She messages me and we started talking. Decided to get drinks and exchanged numbers. Drinks was so fun. Felt like I'd known her forever. She mentioned to me, "you know...I'll tell you what I told my son, if you were 40, I'd date you." I was flattered but curious why she'd tell her son about me, especially when her son is 2 years younger than me! The date ended with a heavy makeout session at the bar, and plans to meet up again. Thoughts?
stillafool Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 "you know...I'll tell you what I told my son, if you were 40, I'd date you." She wanted you to say "Why do I have to be 40 for us to date. I want to date you now." She wants you to ask to see her. I think you do. 1
whichwayisup Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 I am 25, this woman is 45. Total cougar. I met her volunteering, but she was only there the first day, so I only met her once. During that day, she was flirting a lot, but I tend to misread signals, so I thought she was just being friendly to me. Even so, I added her on Facebook, I figured I had nothing to lose. I hadn't seen her in about 6 months. She messages me and we started talking. Decided to get drinks and exchanged numbers. Drinks was so fun. Felt like I'd known her forever. She mentioned to me, "you know...I'll tell you what I told my son, if you were 40, I'd date you." I was flattered but curious why she'd tell her son about me, especially when her son is 2 years younger than me! The date ended with a heavy makeout session at the bar, and plans to meet up again. Thoughts? I assume she's divorced? Looks like she wants you to be her young stud lover. Just don't get too attached, she isn't looking for LTR. 1
coolheadal Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 If you two get along then go for it have fun. 20 years different in the age is something else. But hey it's 2015 things are different than prior years. Make sure she's doesn't have a bunch of guys like you in her stable. Or even worst still married. Wow the son is around your age too. Not like your going to marriage this woman. Well just never know today. As for telling the son your 40 age lie she sounds like she didn't want him to know your real again! Could be she protecting him. Or it could be something else? Best if you ask her that question since she the only one that knows that answer.
Gloria25 Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Oh gosh, I don't tell my gfs and family members about and/or if I'm seeing a guy...I don't "report" my bedroom status to them. I mean, I'd also be embarrassed to tell them I was "rocking the cradle"
acrosstheuniverse Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 She's trying to cheekily hint that she finds you attractive and dateable. She's hinting towards the age difference and bringing it out in the open, hoping to hear your thoughts on it. It's not that weird for parents to talk about dating escapades with their adult kids, they may have a very open relationship and she mentioned she'd met someone hot and joked about it, or maybe she wanted to get her son's opinion on how he'd feel about her dating someone near his age. Don't sweat it, go for it. 1
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