amytct Posted March 26, 2005 Posted March 26, 2005 I apologize for yet another post about my relationship, but everyone here has been so supportive and I need your advice once again. Last Sunday, he called me late to apologize for having to cancel our plans and said we would get together today. He didn't e-mail me until nearly midnight last night, told me was going out for the day, but would be home later and would call me so we could make plans. He did phone at 4:45 and simply told me he didn't feel like doing anything. Then he said, "maybe I'll call you tomorrow, my family plans should be over by 3." (Easter celebration) But he also added that I "shouldn't worry if I won't be around." We have not seen each other for a month and we live 20 minutes apart! I was thinking of calling him tomorrow morning and telling him that I want him to come over because we need to talk. Would that be desperate or should I take the hint that he just wants rid of me and end it by not communicating with him anymore. Quite frankly, he doesn't sound like he's very interested in seeing me tomorrow.
Butterflye Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 Hi there, I'm new here so i really dont know the events leading up to this, but from the way he's acting, he's being very cool and not that enthusiastic, so i think you should follow his lead. Don't call him tomorrow - after all, he's said he might call and come round himself. If he does, then u have the upper hand and can say yes...if he doesn;t, don't push it. It seems that after a month now of u not seeing each other he;s ready to rectify it and if u want/need to see him that much, waiting a little longer will be worth it. If though he doesn't call, maybe a text later..around 8pm, message him...say, incase you called, sorry, have been out all day and am at a friends at the moment. Arrange it for another time? (you can't seem as if you were WAITING on his call! - ahhh, the games we play!) If he does call, be casual, say yeah come round, but give me say an hour, just gotta finish up some stuff. Again, you gotta try and act as cool ad calm as he is. Hope this helps! I'm no expert, but maybe this will work for you??
Pocky Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 Please tell me this isn't the same guy you've been posting about since May 2004.
LoveOneAnother Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 You sound like you are his bak up plan if he doesnt have anything better to do. If you want to play the game, be unavailable to him and see how long it takes for him to come around. If your looking for something serious, dont waste your time. (I didnt read any of your other posts, so this post is the only one that Im going by as far as my opinion on your relationship)
Author amytct Posted March 28, 2005 Author Posted March 28, 2005 Well, I did call him early this afternoon and left a message saying he was welcome to come over and to call me. It's now 6 p.m. and I haven't heard anything. There's his answer, loud and clear. It sure is a tough pill to swallow to accept the fact that someone just doesn't want to spend time with you and doesn't want to be with you. I'm sure I'll be fine in time, but that's exactly what it will take, time. Thanks to everyone who has been so nice to me, I appreciate it more than I can say.
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