justash-x Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 Heartbroken So me and my ex broke up 18 months ago, he ended it out of the blue I still don't know why he did it. It was a messy break up and we continued to see each other until 6 months after we broke up. He goes out to night clubs a lot and the last time I saw him was in May. After that I avoided going to places he would go to help get over him. So on New Years eve I was out with my friend and bumped into him and what looked like his new girlfriend. I was obviously very upset but I never let him see I was upset. He then starts texting me random things. After that I avoided him, if I saw him I would walk the other way. During the break up I became very depressed and I don't want to fall back into it again, but I really feel like I cant cope for much longer. I still feel very hurt and confused as only a week ago he was saying how gorgeous I looked.
Marco Valerio Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 I feel the same way, I'm on my 13th month post break up. Sometimes it takes longer to get over it, but it doesn't mean anything apart than we loved them deeply. Carry on with your life and try not looking back. Best regards.
erklat Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 During the break up I became very depressed and I don't want to fall back into it again, but I really feel like I cant cope for much longer. I still feel very hurt and confused as only a week ago he was saying how gorgeous I looked. This part is unclear - you saw him in May, how come one week ago he could say that ? Have you implemented no contact?
Holmes85 Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 Dear justash-x he ended it out of the blue I still don't know why he did it Because he was interested in someone else. So on New Years eve I was out with my friend and bumped into him and what looked like his new girlfriend. This is the girl he was interested in. He then starts texting me random things He knows you found out and saw his Girlfriend, he feels guilty. I still feel very hurt and confused as only a week ago he was saying how gorgeous I looked. To ease his own guilt. The reason you are still hurting right now is because you are still in contact with him, you saw his new girlfriend, even he's still texting you. If you really want to be over him, I suggest you delete him or block him, unfriend him anywhere on social media websites and start healing. The longer you stay in contact with the longer it's going to take for you to heal.
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