tood Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Sounds like the relationships is being pushed by your mutual friends. Doesn't sound like she's interested. Definately put all these Vegas ideas on hold. And do stop calling her until she calls you back at least once. If she is indeed playing hard to get or has some antiquated rule of not calling the man and not answering his calls either, then she took it too far. (it is at least okay acording to rules to RETURN a persons call - it is called polite).but she also had a crush on me years back
Jayhawks Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 I think the question for you is do you want a gal who acts this way? If you expect a g/f to call you and talk then this gal doesn't seen to be the one. It doesn't matter if she's interested if she isn't acting as you would like then she isn't for you. Simple as that..
nosybear819 Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 I can't speak for every girl but I know that when I can't find the time to call a guy it's mainly because I Don't Want To. I've used the "it's just how I am" line a few times myself. That actually translates to, "that's just how I am with you." I think this girl is stringing you along and she only answers or finds time to "date" you when she has nothing else to do that night. So you went to visit her at work and her face lit up? Maybe she was bored. I know when I'm at work and I'm bored I get excited to see just about anyone...it passes the time by like you wouldn't beleive. Women are evil. You shouldn't put yourself out there like that sounds like she a man-eater to me. If I were you I wouldn't call her anymore. You're not that hard up for a date are you? She can't be that great...right?
littlekitty Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 I can't speak for every girl but I know that when I can't find the time to call a guy it's mainly because I Don't Want To. I've used the "it's just how I am" line a few times myself. That actually translates to, "that's just how I am with you." TRUE. I've used the same line myself when I'm not really that interested I'm thinking of a way to break it up. Sounds like she's happy just stringing you along for now. It's about respect to be honest too. She clearly doesn't respect you enough to return your calls. It's just polite and respectful to return a call in that situation, and her lack of doing so shows me she isn't really interested. Believe me, I've always found the time to call back a guy a like!! Don't misunderstand us women, we're not always as complicated as we seem.
Art_Critic Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 Her phone rang 5 times when I was with her I am 22 and well established both financially and personally, she is 18 and finding her way. If the phone of a girl I was dating rang 5 times in a short time and she didn't answer it I would be thinking WHY ?? I'll tell you why.. Because there were guys calling her .. When she doesn't answer your calls she is with other guys doing the same thing to you that she does to them.. She doesn't answer. Think about it .. She has a lot of boyfriends she is stringing along. The fact that she is 18 says it all... You are going to get your heart broken by this girl. You need to back off and stop being clingy and go find someone else.. As you already said you are 22 and secure.. Go find someone secure..
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