Chica411 Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 This guy and I were emailing, met online. After about 10 days we met and it went great. He texted after meeting saying it was awesome and let him know my schedule. which I did, but no second date was set. Communication slowly slowed, and I was patient and understanding. I didn't jump to immediately answer his texts, and he was starting to take 12-24 hours to reply. Which I joked about once and he said he was super busy with work. I let him know my schedule and didn't push for a date. The next week I said I could find time if he could. No neediness or anything. He did however have time for a tattoo, and his friends bday. So once 2 weeks of barely texting, saying how busy he was I finally asked, "So is too busy not interested?" And that was the end of that. (I didn't put my life on hold for him either and didn't give off any negative vibes.) I don't see where or how he lost interest, unless he felt like he was too busy to date and didn't know how to tell me. But I'm so annoyed, I was really looking forward to seeing him again :/ I feel like I did the right thing by not getting overly invested, and being smart enough to call him out. Instead of taking the scraps he was throwing and continue to waste my time. My dating resolution is to stay smart, and never settle!
WonderWoman911 Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 That was a good approach on how you handled things. You definitely did the right thing by not overly getting invested in that guy. No one has time to be sitting around wondering when they'll receive a text or phone call. It's more fish in the sea. And just like you said "don't settle". You know your worth and what you deserve.
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