Jakk Posted March 26, 2005 Posted March 26, 2005 Hello all, I've met this smashing girl, we're in love. Been dating now for a little under 5 months. So she's gone back home, she's in another country now, and talking to each other is expensive and tricky at best. Thing is, she's had to go back to deal with complicated family things, and it's getting the poor girl down. Problem is, whenever I get to speak to her, she seems to be annoyed with me, like she doesn't want to talk to me. We're planning on going away for a week when she gets back, and she was even unsure about whether it was a good idea - I got really worried what she meant by this, so I asked her and she said that she just doesn't want to be a hinderance - she thinks that by not knowing when she'll be home is getting in the way of booking the holiday. Personally, it doesn't bother me when she gets back, it'll all work out. We ended up with her saying that she really wanted to come away, and come back here, away from her family. I'm feeling stressed and worried about how she sounds depressed when I speak to her. I guess I just need some advice on how to deal with this. Cheers.
curiousnycgirl Posted March 26, 2005 Posted March 26, 2005 You're in a tough situation - she may be depressed over the stuff she is dealing with at home/with her family. That depression may be coming through to you. On the other hand in her case absence may not be making the heart grow fonder. One just doesn't know. If it were me I would drop her an email saying you are concerned and always there for her, but you get the impression that she would prefer not to speak - so you will not press. I would then periodically drop her cute notes, to let her know you are thinking of her, but that there is no pressure. Not sure if it will work, just not sure what the other options are.
Hund1976 Posted March 26, 2005 Posted March 26, 2005 How long do you have to wait until she comes back? If its not too long just wait it out and see what happens when she's back in town.
Jakk Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 She's due to be back in town in five days. She said that she'd call me today because it becomes possible to do so easily today. My friend thinks that I'm just being paranoid, I guess that's what I want to hear. But I've been in this situation before with someone else and I don't want to push her away by being too "needy". If she calls today, how do I act? If she doesn't call today, what do I do? Cheers.
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